Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Catholics have been given everything……The “food is on the table - Its time to eat”……The train leaves with you or without you


Today at Holy Mass we hear in the first reading as well as in the Gospel from St John….John, the beloved disciple has a lot to say!…..…In the first reading John warns his people and us…He tells them that….. “Just as you heard that the antichrist was coming, so now many antichrists have appeared”…Yet he ends his message with….”I write to you not because you do not know the truth but because you do, and because every lie is alien to the truth”….The Truth is written on every human heart - And we ALL hear it…….Yet……We disregard it - Or ignore it - Or pretend to not hear it…..Catholics must be different!….The great Fr John Harden SJ, who was declared a Servant of God by the Church said it best….Catholics must know the Truth, Speak the Truth, Live the Truth & Suffer for the Truth…..Is this what is happening from our pulpits and pews across America?……….It appears to me, we are unwilling to do this…..Again, St John tells us……”I write to you not because you do not know the truth but because you do” - So what are we going to do about it, as we like to say in New Jersey!…….St John goes on in the Gospel today….”From his fullness we have all received, grace in place of grace, because while the law was given through Moses, grace and truth came through Jesus Christ.”……….We have been given everything we need as Catholics…..By living a Sacramental life, through daily prayer and weekly fasting…And of course living a sacrificial life…By doing those things - We receive “grace in place of grace”…And as St Paul wrote so eloquently……“My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness. I will rather boast most gladly of my weaknesses, in order that the power of Christ may dwell with me.”…I got some news for you…If Catholic don’t start standing up in America, no one will…Why?…Because we have been given the most - Do you understand that!…We have Jesus Christ fully present in the Sacraments….If we don’t utilize this great gift - Shame on us!


“The Word of God became flesh and dwelt among us. To those who accepted him he gave power to become the children of God”

Catholics are called to be salt and light of the world - But are we?…..Jesus Christ was a Jewish man who altered not only time but the human race as we know it today….He forged a new path forward….The old ceased to be at his birth and something new began!…Catholics are the chosen people - Sorry if that “hurts your ears”…We have been given the fullness of Truth and Jesus Christ himself, who founded a new Church, the only Church!…Again - Sorry if that “hurts your ears”!…..Salvation is found through Jesus Christ and the Sacraments contained within the one Church Jesus founded…So don’t shoot the messenger here - Read the Catechism - It says so!……So what are we doing about it?……I grew up in a town in New Jersey near an Orthodox Jewish Community…I have nothing but respect for Orthodox Jews…On my radio show I state this publicly constantly…They raise beautiful families, they educate their children in their faith (you will NEVER see an Orthodox Jewish child in a public school), they create strong communities living by the principals of localism (Subsidiarity - Which is also taught in the Catholic Church - We for the most part ignore this teaching while our Jewish brothers and sisters are smart enough to live by it)…All these things I just noted are happening in real time - And the Orthodox Jewish community thrives in a crazy world….How about us Catholics?…..Do we live like everyone else? - Like our pagan neighbors? - Sorry if the word pagan “hurts your ears” but that is what they are…..Catholics have been given EVERYTHING and we do not use it….We have Jesus Christ fully present in the Eucharist - Our Jewish brothers and sisters do not have Jesus and they out do us every day of the week and twice on Tuesday for the most part!…….This reality needs to change and fast…..When I look around, I see nothing but people getting “eaten alive” by bad choices and by a world that has lied to them….And we have believed all the lies and then some and we allow our children to do the same!…Don’t you think enough is enough?…..How about we try something new?……It’s time to be Catholic…Not in name - But for real!

“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God. All things came to be through him, and without him nothing came to be. What came to be through him was life, and this life was the light of the human race; the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”

Today St John tells us many things…And all of what he said is true….So what are you going to do about it!?!……Catholics need to “get off the bench” and “get in the game”….Our world is falling apart - America is too!…The Catholic Church has the “best story in town” yet the world sees something else….Lukewarm Catholicism is nauseating!…I can say that because I am Catholic and because its true…..The people who live around us are not going to commit their life to weak men and platitudes spoken but not lived out…Again, sorry if I “hurt your ears”….Its time to “stand up” and be Catholic…..What did Jesus have to say about this?…….”So, because you are lukewarm, neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth. For you say, ‘I am rich and affluent and have no need of anything,’ and yet do not realize that you are wretched, pitiable, poor, blind, and naked. I advise you to buy from me gold refined by fire* so that you may be rich, and white garments to put on so that your shameful nakedness may not be exposed, and buy ointment to smear on your eyes so that you may see. Those whom I love, I reprove and chastise. Be earnest, therefore, and repent Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, [then] I will enter his house and dine with him, and he with me”………Catholics have been given everything……The “food is on the table - Its time to eat”……The train leaves with you or without you………..JMJ

Tuesday, December 30, 2025

Maybe that dream is not a dream after all


Today at Holy Mass in the first reading St John draws a line in the sand….He discusses how “the things” of this world are passing and that attachment to those “things” lead to distancing ones self from God….”Do not love the world or the things of the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, sensual lust, enticement for the eyes, and a pretentious life, is not from the Father but is from the world. Yet the world and its enticement are passing away. But whoever does the will of God remains forever.”…….This statement by St John goes against just about every one of our American sensibilities…..It brings to the forefront of our mind what is truly important and what gets disregarded….While we live in this world, clearly we need certain material things to provide for our family…But materialism, which is so pervasive in American culture leads one to forget what is most important….All the “things” we have will not comfort us when we are alone on our death bed….Only a life detached from materialism can lead us to where we want to go….And only God can give us what the world can never give us - Which is peace, lasting joy and eternal life


“A holy day has dawned upon us. Come, you nations, and adore the Lord. Today a great light has come upon the earth.”

For seven years I worked for Morgan Stanley, which is one of the largest Investment Banks in the world….While I was not an executive, I dealt with on a daily basis many people who were…These individuals made ridiculous sums of money….They are the people young American high achievers aspire to be…..During the time that I work with these people, I noticed that many of them were not very happy….Let me put it this way, on my free time, these were not the people I would want to spend time with…..Could it be that the “American dream”, which we pump into our children’s heads is not a “dream” after all?….Clearly, we need to earn a living in this life but if making tons of money makes a person miserable, the question becomes - Is it worth it?…..Back to my time working at Morgan Stanley…On my floor there was this old woman who cleaned the floor…She always pushed around a big garbage can and on that can she taped a picture of the Holy family, Jesus, Mary and Joseph, so as she pushed the can, she could always see this holy image as she worked…I bring this woman up because she was always smiling…She always seemed happy and when you greeted her, she always returned the greeting with joy…..This woman made a fraction of what the people I worked with made and yet, she was infinitely happier and so much more pleasant to be around…How can that be?…..There is a great paradox to living a Catholic life….To the world a Catholic lifestyle does not make sense…..I can remember when I had my fifth child at the age of 51 years old…My boss who made hundreds of thousands of dollars a year said to me - “Joe - You are crazy”…..Is it so crazy to have children?…..Or……Is it crazy to allow material things to dominate our life?……..Life is all about choices…..And with all choices made there are consequences, both in the here and now and when we die and face the Lord……As a middle aged man, I can say I have learned a “few things” in my life time…One of those “things” is - You can not have it both ways - Meaning, if we choose the things of the world, we lose God in the process……Jesus puts it this way……“No one can serve two masters. He will either hate one and love the other, or be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon”…......This statement is unquestionably true…..Interestingly enough - What is commonly called “Americanism” in academic circles, which prioritizes material success as the primarily goal in life and should be “the dream” of all is in direct conflict with the words of Christ - Hmmmmm - Were we sold a lie?.......….Working hard and living up to our potential is what everyone should hope to achieve, I sure do, but if that means losing our relationship with God - Is it worth it?….Speaking personally, I have never met an eighty-five year old man who showed me a picture of his car….Eight-five year old men, seem to always show you pictures of their grand-kids and do so with a huge smile……Catholics need to strive to be "in the world" but not be "of the world"…As St John tells us today…......…”The world and its enticement are passing away”……..Don’t sell yourself short and don’t sell your soul for something that will leave you all alone in the end….....Why? - Because - “Whoever does the will of God remains forever.”…You can’t have it both ways…Don’t believe the lie

“Say among the nations: The LORD is king. He has made the world firm, not to be moved; he governs the peoples with equity”

Today at Mass St John tells it like it is….."The love of money is the root of all evil”…....Now don’t get me wrong - We need a certain amount of money to provide for our family…Is that what we do or are we “building our castle” here on earth and in doing so, “thinking” we can still have God and heaven in the process?…..This idea, which is associated with what is referred to as Americanism, is in direct conflict with Catholic Social Teaching….Are we familiar with Catholic Social Teaching?……Have we “twisted” our belief system to live like our pagan neighbors as opposed to living for God and working daily to build his Kingdom on earth?……Do we believe in the “prosperity gospel” as opposed to the Gospel of Jesus Christ?……All valid questions - And all these questions are addressed by St John today at Mass………..”Do not love the world or the things of the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him” - Hmmmm - Does not sound like the American Dream I was taught?….....Maybe that dream is not a dream after all…………..JMJ

Monday, December 29, 2025

That is how we “see” like Simeon…..”so that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.”


Today at Holy Mass we hear in the Gospel of St Luke the story of Christ being presented in the temple…As many know, this is the fourth decade of the Joyful Mysteries of the Rosary, which is prayed every Monday and Saturday….For the purposes of this reflection I want to focus on the character of Simeon in this story….....How did Simeon know want he knew?…….”Now there was a man in Jerusalem whose name was Simeon. This man was righteous and devout, awaiting the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him. It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he should not see death before he had seen the Christ of the Lord. He came in the Spirit into the temple; and when the parents brought in the child Jesus to perform the custom of the law in regard to him, he took him into his arms and blessed God, saying: "Lord, now let your servant go in peace; your word has been fulfilled: my own eyes have seen the salvation which you prepared in the sight of every people, a light to reveal you to the nations and the glory of your people Israel." The child's father and mother were amazed at what was said about him; and Simeon blessed them and said to Mary his mother, "Behold, this child is destined for the fall and rise of many in Israel, and to be a sign that will be contradicted (and you yourself a sword will pierce) so that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.”…….Scripture tells us that Simeon prayed day and night in the temple along with Anna…..That is how Simeon “saw” what he saw…....He was a man of prayer……When a Catholic prays and utilizes the Sacraments - We “see”…..The Sacrament of Reconciliation “clears away” the sins, which fog our vision….And when we receive the Blessed Sacrament in the state of grace - The life of Christ penetrates deeply into our soul…Such a person sees what the world does not….....Sin blinds our eyes…....And only the Sacraments can remove sin from our life and allow us to see….....Why else did Simeon see?….He was a man of deep prayer…....Time spent mediating on the life of Christ when praying the Rosary and time spent before the exposed Blessed Sacrament in silence again opens our mind and heart to receive grace, which in turn effects what we “see” in the world….So many today in our society disregard time spent in prayer, as well as disregard living a Sacramental life…..As a result, the world is blind and walks around wounded and lost….And what does Scripture tells us about this predicament?…….”They are blind guides [of the blind]. If a blind person leads a blind person, both will fall into a pit.”……This is why a life of prayer is so important….Like Simeon, we too can “see” but that kind of vision only comes from a pure heart....…”Blessed are the pure of heart for they shall see God”…..That is how we “see” like Simeon and avoid falling into “the pit.”


“Whoever says he is in the light, yet hates his brother, is still in the darkness. Whoever loves his brother remains in the light, and there is nothing in him to cause a fall. Whoever hates his brother is in darkness; he walks in darkness and does not know where he is going because the darkness has blinded his eyes”

When Mother Teresa was at the height of her fame, a report asked her point blank - “What is your secret?”….Mother Teresa responded - “I pray”…......When you get right down to it, it’s really that simple!….Praying is not saying a few words right before you go to bed…Its opening yourself up to the divine…Its about “clearing away” sin Sacramentally and allowing the very Body and Blood of Jesus Christ to nourish our soul…....Its about quieting down our mind and mediating on the words of Scripture, its about silencing our mind and standing before Jesus himself in the Blessed Sacrament, where in the silence, God will speak to us in a whisper that only the human heart can hear…...This is prayer and this is how we “see”……How else can we enhance our prayer life?…..Jesus gives us the answer in Scripture….By Fasting!…..Fasting sharpens our prayer life….It makes us rely of Christ in a real and tangible way……It builds self disciple….In other words - Fasting is vital…Its not just for Advent and Lent…If we are serious about growing closer to Christ, prayer and fasting are tools we should incorporate into our life…Again, this is how one “sees’ as one should….This is how we avoid the many traps of the evil one….This is how God can use us…And this is how we get to heaven.

“The way we may be sure that we know Jesus is to keep his commandments. Whoever says, "I know him," but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But whoever keeps his word, the love of God is truly perfected in him. This is the way we may know that we are in union with him: whoever claims to abide in him ought to walk just as he walked.”

Today we hear about Simeon in St Luke’s Gospel at Mass…Simeon was a man of prayer and as a result, when Christ was carried into the Temple by his Mother, Simeon saw Jesus for who he really was….Why did the rest of the people in the Temple not see what Simeon saw? - Ask yourself that…Simeon saw because he was a man of deep prayer…This man should be used as an example for all Catholics…Catholics MUST be people of prayer….The closer we get to God, the more Jesus can use us in the world…..However, we can not give what we do not have….Our job is to “prepare the vessel”, which is our soul…We do that through living a Sacramental life, daily prayers and weekly fasting - We also do this by living a sacrificial life…By doing those things consistently, we in essence “empty ourself”, which in turn allows God to fill us with his very life - The Holy Spirit!…This is the “blue print” - And ANYONE can do this from the great of the world to the small of the world - From the Pope to the old lady in the last pew in your Church…And by doing this, we grow in holiness - We cooperate with Christ, who desires to sanctify us….…Is this your goal? - To become holy? - If not it should be - Why is that important? - That is how we “see” like Simeon…..”so that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.”……JMJ

Sunday, December 28, 2025

The family that prays together - Stays together.....That is not just a “catchy phrase” - Its the Truth


Today the Universal Church commemorates the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph…..The family is the smallest cell of every society….And in America, the family is clearly under attack. More than half of American marriages end in divorce, which produces disorder across our society….What is driving this problem?…..Marriage was established by God and marriage is a Sacrament….Why is it a Sacrament?…The answer - To lived married life and meet the demands of self-sacrifical love, which is required by both the man and the woman is difficult….This is why God instituted marriage to be a Sacrament and this is the greatest mistake of our society - God is not the center of our marriages….And when God is not the center of a marriage, selfishness is not far behind, which ultimately erodes a marriage……Sacramental grace elevates human nature….And this grace is essential for a marriage to thrive…..What we see today in our children is a bi-product of Godless marriages….Children lost, wounded and broken - To see this one does not have to look far…The answer to all we see - A God centered marriage - Why? - Because God centered marriages work!…….The family that prays together stays together - But it’s not just about “staying together” - Its about thriving!….Do we know what marriage is all about?…How do we define what love is?….There is the key question - Love is self-sacrifical…And God’s grace helps us to live this way….To view love or marriage any other way is a dangerous proposition….But don’t take my words for it - Look at the statistics - In fact - Just look out your front door….Many people talk about “fixing America” - Well, that “fix begins and ends” with God and family…..God strengthens family life and strong families produce a strong nation - There is the answer to many of America problems in a “nut-shell”……Invite God into your marriage and watch how it is transformed.


“Put on, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if one has a grievance against another; as the Lord has forgiven you, so must you also do. And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection.”

How does one invite God into their marriage?…Let’s start slow….How about going to Mass together for starters?…..And every night pray one decade of the Rosary together….Putting into practice what I just suggested takes such a small amount of time and in doing this, we allow God to work!…In time, eyes will open and grace will build upon grace…..How much time do we invest in going to the gym, wasting time scrolling on social media, or time spent watching the television?….Going to Mass takes one hour per week and praying one decade of the Rosary with your spouse takes five minutes per day….God is not an ogre, he will not “throw you in the deep end of the pool” if you take me up on this offer…Start off slow and allow God to work - And then YOU will see…Marriage is a Sacrament and when Americans start treating it as such is when America will be transformed and not before….How can a nation vote properly when it does not even know how many genders there are - Let’s be honest…..When our families are healthy our nation will follow - “Voting harder” will not cut it!

“God sets a father in honor over his children; a mother’s authority he confirms over her sons. Whoever honors his father atones for sins, and preserves himself from them. When he prays, he is heard; he stores up riches who reveres his mother. Whoever honors his father is gladdened by children, and, when he prays, is heard. Whoever reveres his father will live a long life; he who obeys his father brings comfort to his mother”

The Universal Church today honors the Holy Family for a reason….Because family life is vital - Everyone comes from a family, whether you are a surgeon or you sweep the streets and healthy families usually produce healthy people….Is this happening today? - Let’s be honest….Solutions to problems do not “fall from the sky” and like everything else, having a strong marriage takes work….This all begins with inviting God into our marriages…..Love gives it does not take and if we want to love sacrificially, we need God’s grace…For those who have ears - Let them hear…..Marriage is a Sacrament for a reason……Love is not a word - Its an action and authentic love gives all and in turn humanity thrives…We can’t “vote” our problems away - Most of our problems can be solved around the kitchen table….Everything begins and ends with the family and fighting for your family begins with an invitation to God - Allow him in the “front door”….The family that prays together - Stays together.....That is not a just a “catchy phrase” - Its the Truth…………….JMJ

Friday, December 26, 2025

Head up - Carry on - Full Steam ahead!


Today at Holy Mass we are told that mankind not only rejected the message of Jesus Christ but if we embrace his message, mankind will reject us too….”Jesus said to his disciples: "Beware of men, for they will hand you over to courts and scourge you in their synagogues, and you will be led before governors and kings for my sake as a witness before them and the pagans. When they hand you over, do not worry about how you are to speak or what you are to say. You will be given at that moment what you are to say. For it will not be you who speak but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you. Brother will hand over brother to death, and the father his child; children will rise up against parents and have them put to death. You will be hated by all because of my name, but whoever endures to the end will be saved”….Why such a message the day after Christmas?…..Because Jesus came to the world to being a message - Remember what he said? - "I am the TRUTH" - And from the very beginning, the world rejected that message - And still does…We are reminded of this today - That if we follow Christ, we will be “different” and that the world will reject us too….This reality keeps many from fully embracing their Catholic faith….Within each human being, from the time we are children, there is a deep need to belong…..To follow our Catholic faith, which is aggressively rejected to this very day, will lead many to be repelled from those who live as the Church and Jesus calls us to live…..So what happens? - We “go along to get along”…..We “water-down the gospel”….....We “gloss over” the challenging parts…..We conveniently “leave out” the mention of sin, the devil and hell……..What happens when we do that? - We reject Christ……There is no such thing as being a Catholic without the embrace of the Cross….To think other wise is simply a self-delusion…..Our world desperately needs God and if we want to be a light to the world, we cannot be “like the world”……To be such a person, one must accept the “cost”……Accept it and rejoice.


“Blessed is he who comes in the name of the LORD: the LORD is God and has given us light”

History often repeats itself and one of the mistakes of mankind and of governments that reject God is the attempt to create heaven upon the earth - There is no such thing - Never has and never can be…..In man’s attempt to create heaven on earth - The result is ALWAYS the same - Instead of ‘heaven”, mankind creates his own hell….This is why God inserted himself into the human story….Its not for mankind to “bring God down” to our level - Its for God to “bring mankind up” to his level…But how?……The answer is found in Sacramental grace…..And in bending our knee to the one true God….Grace elevates human nature and allows mankind to live “above his pay grade”….Without grace - It can’t be done!….This grace I speak of can only be found in the one and only Church that the one and only man founded who rose from the dead…..What I just wrote is aggressively rejected by the world and those who embrace a Catholic identity fully have been rejected by societies, governments and individuals for 2000 years….But the “answer” to man’s “problems” boils down to what I just noted - There is only one solution and that solution is not “man-made”….Jesus knew this and that is why he came and walked among us - This is why he founded a Sacramental Church….Catholics MUST be willing to be rejected by the world - Jesus assures us of this reality - “Blessed are you when they insult you and persecute you and utter every kind of evil against you [falsely] because of me. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward will be great in heaven. Thus they persecuted the prophets who were before you.”….......So as we say in New Jersey - “Deal with it”…..St John also tells us the same thing…..”And this is the verdict, that the light came into the world, but people preferred darkness to light, because their works were evil. For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come toward the light, so that his works might not be exposed. But whoever lives the truth comes to the light, so that his works may be clearly seen as done in God”…….We must be willing to be “that light” - That “light” is only given to us when we empty ourselves and open our hearts to it…..…Be willing to be “that light” for the “some” who accept it and pay whatever price that needs to be paid.

“When they heard this, they were infuriated, and they ground their teeth at him. But he, filled with the Holy Spirit, looked up intently to heaven and saw the glory of God and Jesus standing at the right hand of God, and he said, "Behold, I see the heavens opened and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of God."

Today we are reminded at Mass….God is not promising Catholics a “rose garden” here on earth - So accept that reality and deal with it!….What God is promising Catholics is eternal life…And not if but WHEN the world rejects you - You will still have peace - Peace the world can not take…..This to some people frankly is unacceptable….And they turn from God and their Catholic faith - And that is a tragedy!…..Nothing in life is free and there is no such thing as “heaven on earth" - So get that idea out of your head!….However, the best life one can live DOES NOT look like the life advertised on social media…..Most times the life broadcasted on television is empty - The best life one can have in the short time we have on this earth is to live in the state of grace - Free from mortal sin due to frequent reception of the Sacraments…….This “life” most times will not get you one million “likes” on social media or place your family on the cover of magazines…It will however, bring you peace and deep joy the world can never take from you - The secular world can never understand "such a life" when viewing it from the outside looking in….Following Christ as a Catholic in a dark world has never been easy and it never will be easy…....With that said - Bear your share of hardships for the Gospel - Embrace your Catholic faith fully!….Eternity is forever and more people then you think will be impacted by your example….Its all about a grace driven example - Allow God to work within you - If you allow him too - He surely will work!….…..St Paul said it best………”So do not be ashamed of your testimony to our Lord, nor of me, a prisoner for his sake; but bear your share of hardship for the gospel with the strength that comes from God”…..Head up - Carry on - Full Steam ahead!……..JMJ

Thursday, December 25, 2025

Christmas Day is about “changing direction” upon seeing the child born for us all…Its about “departing by another way”


Today across the world, Christmas bells ring….Christ's birth is acknowledged in the four corners of the world, by those who are pious Catholics to agnostics in modern cities…..”How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him who brings glad tidings, announcing peace, bearing good news, announcing salvation, and saying to Zion, “Your God is King!”……….The impact of this day, that took place in a remote corner of the Middle East 2000 years ago has impacted us all…..While Christmas is recognized…..Is the message of Christ recognized?….We all celebrate on this day but do we contemplate the words of Jesus Christ and more importantly, do we utilize the gifts of the one Church Christ founded to live out his word by and through grace?…..” He was in the world, and the world came to be through him, but the world did not know him. He came to what was his own, but his own people did not accept him. But to those who did accept him he gave power to become children of God, to those who believe in his name, who were born not by natural generation nor by human choice nor by a man’s decision but of God.”……….Today a child is born for the salvation of the world…..He was born right under the eyes of mankind and most men “missed” his coming and the majority overlooked the significance of his birth at the time……Is today any different?…..Christmas is not about presents and lights…Christmas is about Jesus Christ - The world’s one and only hope…………”And the Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us, and we saw his glory, the glory as of the Father’s only Son, full of grace and truth”……..Do we look past the “bling” of the materialism of Christmas sold to us by corporations and the mainstream media?…..Do we “see” as the shepherds did the star in the sky marking the humble place of the birth of Christ?…..The same star shines bright to this very day. - Do we see it?


“A holy day has dawned upon us. Come, you nations, and adore the Lord. For today a great light has come upon the earth.”

What compelled the people of Christ's time to follow him?…..Why did the three Kings travel great distances to pay homage to the son of Joseph and Mary?…..Something is within the hearts of ALL men - That “something” is God…As Catholics we are baptized into the life of Christ and given the first installment of the Holy Spirit…But in order for that gift to grow - We must nourish it….God cannot save us without our cooperation…….We are told in the nativity narrative about the Three Kings, when upon seeing the child, they were forever changed……”And on entering the house they saw the child with Mary his mother. They prostrated themselves and did him homage. Then they opened their treasures and offered him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. And having been warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they departed for their country by another way.”…How about us?…..Upon encountering Christ today, did we too “depart by another way”?…….This is the true message of Christmas…..Each of us has something to do but we will never do it, unless we “depart by another way”

“What came to be through him was life, and this life was the light of the human race; the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”

Today the world stops - There is a pause in all the “hustle and bustle” for a short period of time….The birth of Christ spilt time in two!….His humble birth, which we commemorate today, changed the world in a way that no other person can or ever will…..The question to ponder today is - How did Jesus’ birth impact YOU?…Is this day just about exchanging gifts and celebrating with family and friends over good food and drinks?..…Or….Is there something deeper here to ponder?……Jesus was born today for one reason only - To die - Think about that for a moment……And if we take the Birth of Christ seriously, we too must realize that in order to live as we were all called to live, we too must die - Not in the way Jesus did physically - But we are called to die to ourselves and allow Christ to live within us…Without our YES and without dying to self, we will never fulfill what we were called to be or do….And unlike the Three Kings, we will not “depart by another way”.....…Christmas Day is about “changing direction” upon seeing the child born for us all…Its about “departing by another way”……….JMJ



Wednesday, December 24, 2025

The world waits and at times even doubts - But right when the world is about to give up - God delivers


Today at Holy Mass we are told in the first reading from the Book of Samuel that God will rise up an heir to save his people…..God works in plain sight “under the radar”…But make no mistake - He is at work………”I will raise up your heir after you, sprung from your loins, and I will make his Kingdom firm. I will be a father to him, and he shall be a son to me. Your house and your Kingdom shall endure forever before me; your throne shall stand firm forever”……..Historically speaking - Whenever mankind “screws up” everything beyond a point where nothing can be done to fix the situation - God ALWAYS rises up a person to address the situation….Again, all you have to do is read and see for your self - In comes a saint and somehow the people regain their "sight" and alter their direction….God has not abandoned his people and he makes every “crooked road” straight…But why do people respond to saints? - Because saints radiate the love of God…Saints make individuals and society look deep within themselves…This is why we must strive to become a holy people…..Each and every Catholic - If you want to make a difference in this life - The only thing that will make people stop and even consider changing is the example of a holy life….Whether you are a priest, bishop, cardinal or sitting in the back row of the Church…..People do not listen to words most times - But the witness of a holy life stops traffic….And this is why we hear today at Mass a promise from God…That he has not forgotten the human race…He will rise up saints - Because only saints change the world.


“O Radiant Dawn, splendor of eternal light, sun of justice: come and shine on those who dwell in darkness and in the shadow of death.”

One YES can do many things….A person fully committed to God will shake the foundations of the world………..Angelo Romeo was an academic born in Sicily and was educated at the finest schools in Italy…He took a job in Rome at a University and lived a good life by the standards of the world….After a trip to Kolkata, India serving the poor with Mother Teresa's sisters, Angelo went back to Rome and started an outreach program in the city, serving the poor….And the organization he founded in Rome has grown and grown gaining the attention of many across Italy…..This is an example of one person and one YES……Erik Lepargneux was a French student who came from a well to do family…He traveled to Kolkata to serve the poor…..He returned home to France to get a job as a Commodity trader making tons of money at a bank…But the experience of India kept “calling to him”…He resigned from his position as a trader and is now a Dominican priest studying in Rome……Again - One person and one Yes……..Gene Principe owned two bars in Harlem New York…His brother was a priest but Gene was the “black sheep” of the family…That was until he met Mother Teresa and the encounter changed his life…For the next four decades Gene served the poor of New York City relentlessly…..One more story - One more person - One more YES…..These are real people…..Have you encountered the living God? - People change - This does not happen because of arguments or mere words - But how? - I will tell you how - God is real and if we authentically encounter him - There is NO WAY one can be the same afterwards…..Dr Peter Kreeft from Boston College put it best in his book Jesus Shock……….“Those who meet Jesus always experience either joy or its opposites, either foretastes of Heaven or foretastes of Hell. Not everyone who meets Jesus is pleased, and not everyone is happy, but everyone is shocked”……..God continues to work in the world and as he does, from the masses of humanity, saints will rise up once again!…..Why? - Because our world needs them - Its the only “argument” the world responses too - The life of a holy man or woman - Such a life "stops traffic"….And in turn the world changes for the better

“He has raised up for us a mighty Savior, born of the house of his servant David. Through his prophets he promised of old that he would save us from our enemies, from the hands of all who hate us”

Today we are told at Mass….God will rise up an heir to the throne of David…..And “rise up”someone he sure did! - Jesus was that person and the world has not been the same since his birth…But until the time of Jesus' second coming - Work needs to be done…And that work is left to YOU and ME….One person at a time - One YES at a time….The world waits and at times even doubts - But right when the world is about to give up - God delivers…………JMJ


Tuesday, December 23, 2025

Its going to happen - Like it or not - So be apart of it


Today at Holy Mass in the first reading from the Book of Malachi an interesting two lines jumped out at me…..”For he is like the refiner’s fire, or like the fuller’s lye. He will sit refining and purifying silver, and he will purify the sons of Levi, Refining them like gold or like silver that they may offer due sacrifice to the LORD.”…….Malachi is telling the world and us that we are not ready yet for the Lord’s second coming….”He will purify the sons of Levi, Refining them”……God continues to purify the world and the Church…Sanctifying it and making it holy…All things, both good and bad work towards this end….Notice again the words of Malachi - “the refiner’s fire” - The process of purifying gold or silver requires fire….Its the fire that burns away all the impurities in the metal - Leaving only what is pure…This is a good analogy as to what we see in the Church, the world and even within ourselves……..Mankind in and through his free will “screws everything up” more times then we can all count…But God “works through” all those screw ups….He uses them to purify both us and the Church……Before Father Joseph Ratzinger, who become the future Pope Benedict XVI, in 1969 made a prophetic statement during a radio address……I have referenced this statement often in these reflections…..I do this because I believe what Pope Benedict stated is “spot on”…………..Here is the statement in its entirety

“The future of the Church can and will issue from those whose roots are deep and who live from the pure fullness of their faith. It will not issue from those who accommodate themselves merely to the passing moment or from those who merely criticize others and assume that they themselves are infallible measuring rods; nor will it issue from those who take the easier road, who sidestep the passion of faith, declaring false and obsolete, tyrannous and legalistic, all that makes demands upon men, that hurts them and compels them to sacrifice themselves. To put this more positively: The future of the Church, once again as always, will be reshaped by saints, by men, that is, whose minds probe deeper than the slogans of the day, who see more than others see, because their lives embrace a wider reality. Unselfishness, which makes men free, is attained only through the patience of small daily acts of self-denial. By this daily passion, which alone reveals to a man in how many ways he is enslaved by his own ego, by this daily passion and by it alone, a man's eyes are slowly opened. He sees only to the extent that he has lived and suffered. If today we are scarcely able any longer to become aware of God, that is because we find it so easy to evade ourselves, to flee from the depths of our being by means of the narcotic of some pleasure or other. Thus our own interior depths remain closed to us. If it is true that a man can see only with his heart, then how blind we are!
“How does all this affect the problem we are examining? It means that the big talk of those who prophesy a Church without God and without faith is all empty chatter. We have no need of a Church that celebrates the cult of action in political prayers. It is utterly superfluous. Therefore, it will destroy itself. What will remain is the Church of Jesus Christ, the Church that believes in the God who has become man and promises us life beyond death. The kind of priest who is no more than a social worker can be replaced by the psychotherapist and other specialists; but the priest who is no specialist, who does not stand on the [sidelines], watching the game, giving official advice, but in the name of God places himself at the disposal of man, who is beside them in their sorrows, in their joys, in their hope and in their fear, such a priest will certainly be needed in the future.
“Let us go a step farther. From the crisis of today the Church of tomorrow will emerge -- a Church that has lost much. She will become small and will have to start afresh more or less from the beginning. She will no longer be able to inhabit many of the edifices she built in prosperity. As the number of her adherents diminishes, so it will lose many of her social privileges. In contrast to an earlier age, it will be seen much more as a voluntary society, entered only by free decision. As a small society, it will make much bigger demands on the initiative of her individual members. Undoubtedly it will discover new forms of ministry and will ordain to the priesthood approved Christians who pursue some profession. In many smaller congregations or in self-contained social groups, pastoral care will normally be provided in this fashion. Along-side this, the full-time ministry of the priesthood will be indispensable as formerly. But in all of the changes at which one might guess, the Church will find her essence afresh and with full conviction in that which was always at her center: faith in the triune God, in Jesus Christ, the Son of God made man, in the presence of the Spirit until the end of the world. In faith and prayer she will again recognize the sacraments as the worship of God and not as a subject for liturgical scholarship.
“The Church will be a more spiritual Church, not presuming upon a political mandate, flirting as little with the Left as with the Right. It will be hard going for the Church, for the process of crystallization and clarification will cost her much valuable energy. It will make her poor and cause her to become the Church of the meek. The process will be all the more arduous, for sectarian narrow-mindedness as well as pompous self-will will have to be shed. One may predict that all of this will take time. The process will be long and wearisome as was the road from the false progressivism on the eve of the French Revolution -- when a bishop might be thought smart if he made fun of dogmas and even insinuated that the existence of God was by no means certain -- to the renewal of the nineteenth century. But when the trial of this sifting is past, a great power will flow from a more spiritualized and simplified Church. Men in a totally planned world will find themselves unspeakably lonely. If they have completely lost sight of God, they will feel the whole horror of their poverty. Then they will discover the little flock of believers as something wholly new. They will discover it as a hope that is meant for them, an answer for which they have always been searching in secret.
“And so it seems certain to me that the Church is facing very hard times. The real crisis has scarcely begun. We will have to count on terrific upheavals. But I am equally certain about what will remain at the end: not the Church of the political cult, which is dead already, but the Church of faith. It may well no longer be the dominant social power to the extent that she was until recently; but it will enjoy a fresh blossoming and be seen as man's home, where he will find life and hope beyond death.”

“The Catholic Church will survive in spite of men and women, not necessarily because of them.”

American Christianity believes we just “float into heaven”…..This has never been taught by the Catholic Church and Protestants who believe this, as do many Catholics have “sanitized” death, suffering and eternal salvation and in the process watered down the faith….The purpose of life is to allow God to sanctify us…We do that through our cooperation with him and by relying on Sacramental grace, daily prayer, fasting and living a sacrificial life - This “process” in effect “chips away” all the impurities of our life day by day - Transforming us into a holy people……And if we “fall short”, which must of us do…And if we ask Christ to forgive our sins….we spend some time in Purgatory, where God in his mercy “finishes us off”, making us the people we were born to be….That is the process people! ….......The closer we get to God now, the more he can use us in the world to save souls…..This should be the one and only goal of every Baptized Catholic, to grow in holiness each and every day….And God is working! - Believe it!………We are told in Scripture……”I am confident of this, that the one who began a good work in you will continue to complete it until the day of Christ Jesus.”…….There is no such thing as “cheap grace” just as there is no such thing as a “free pass” into heaven…..We must carry our cross and it’s "the cross" itself that purifies us as we walk with it.

“Your ways, O LORD, make known to me; teach me your paths, Guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my savior.”

Today at Mass the words of the Prophet Malachi are read to us….He tells us that God will purify the sons of Levi, Refining them like gold or like silver that they may offer due sacrifice to the LORD”…......Take a guess who the “sons of Levi” are? - That is you and me - We are the Church…..God is “working on us”…..And as we say in New Jersey - “We can do this the easy way or the hard way”…..Cooperate with God - He is the master builder - When its all said and done - The finished product will speak for itself……“The Catholic Church will survive in spite of men and women, not necessarily because of them” - So “play nice in the sand box boys and girls” - Allow God to do what he does! - Its going to happen - Like it or not - So be apart of it……..JMJ



Monday, December 22, 2025

Open eyes make for an open heart and an open heart opens our hands to others - This is how we learn to rejoice always - So rejoice


Today at Holy Mass Our Lady proclaims her thanks to the Lord for everything he has done for her…..Mary’s life was never easy….We are told in Scripture that “you yourself a sword will pierce”……Yet - Mary gives thanks…..How about us?…..“My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my savior. for he has looked upon his lowly servant. From this day all generations will call me blessed: the Almighty has done great things for me, and holy is his Name. He has mercy on those who fear him in every generation. He has shown the strength of his arm, and has scattered the proud in their conceit. He has cast down the mighty from their thrones and has lifted up the lowly. He has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich he has sent away empty. He has come to the help of his servant Israel for he remembered his promise of mercy, the promise he made to our fathers, to Abraham and his children for ever.”………The ability to "see" all the gifts given to us is in-and-of-itself a gift…..So many people, myself included, take for granted so many things…..Our Lady understood - We must learn to understand as well - To see everything we have as a gift…..And that we must use those gifts to serve God and our neighbor……Those who grasp this idea are full of joy and those who don’t are not……Because it is in “giving that we receive”…But before we give of ourselves and of the gifts we have been given - We must we able to “see” clearly and acknowledge the “giver of all gifts”…..How easy it is to be blinded by material success….To ignore others…To be selfish…..The happiest people on the earth know how to give thanks and give….Aspire to be one of those people.


“O King of all nations and keystone of the Church; come and save man, whom you formed from the dust!”

Even if you live to be one hundred years old, we really are only “renting” while we are here on earth……Life goes by fast……Its all in how you view the time given to you….Are we building our “castle” here on earth?….Or….Are we living for heaven?……How we answer those questions determines a lot……..Every Advent Season in Kolkata India, when I would travel there to serve with Mother Teresa’s sisters there was this one older woman from Spain who would always be there as well…..For some reason this woman had a heart for the rickshaw drivers in the city…Many of these men would sleep in the rickshaw they rented to earn a living and work all day with no shoes on their feet…This volunteer from Spain would give out blankets and cloths to hundreds of them each year….One year she asked me to help…..The day before the give-out, we would travel throughout the city and give out tickets to these men…..Once people understood what the tickets were for, huge lines would form around us….The following day, the give-out took place and hundreds of rickshaw drivers would show up…This volunteer from Spain paid for all the cloths and blankets out of her own pocket…..I remember seeing a few days following the give-out one year a rickshaw driver sleeping in his rickshaw in the early morning using one of the blankets he had received….To some they may think this was a “small gesture” - But if you are cold and poor, a blanket given to you is no small gesture….....When one learns to give, we experience great joy in this life……There is something about giving that “fills us up”…….The greatest “killer of love” is selfishness…..True love gives, it does not take…And when we love God, we show him our love by how we love our neighbor….We are unable to love as we aspire too without first acknowledge God - Frankly, its impossible to love even our wife and children the way we want too, until we learn to love God….This is what the world is “missing” today….Once we “find” the one true God…And learn to love him…Then and only then will we love our neighbor as ourself….This my friends is on the “final exam” - So pay attention! - Its also the “secret” to a good and meaningful life.

“At the end of our lives, we will not be judged by how many diplomas we have received, how much money we have made or how many great things we have done. We will be judged by; ‘I was hungry and you gave me food to eat. I was naked and you clothed me. I was homeless and you took me in.'” —St. Teresa of Calcutta

Today Our Lady in the Gospel gives thanks for everything God did for her….While Mary was chosen to be the mother of God, her life was far from easy - We can gloss over this reality - Yet, Mary accepted all the hardships that went along with what God asked of her to do…. How about us?……A very holy nun once told me….”Joe - Everything comes from the hand of God”…..That means even when things “don’t go our way”….God is using everything to form us, to make us holy, to sanctify us…Do we view failures and hardships in this manner?…..While no one likes to suffer, sadly, its apart of the life of every soul…But when we view the experiences of loss and hardships in life through this lens of sanctification, we can move forward in hope……The human person can not fully understand themselves until they understand that there is a God, who not only created them but loves them…..Jesus Christ gave meaning to both suffering and death……..Something every person on earth experiences…..Before we can give thanks, we need to understand who we are in relationship with the one who gave us everything we have, including our very life….“My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my savior. For he has looked upon his lowly servant”……..We can not give what we do not have - Open eyes make for an open heart and an open heart opens our hands to others - This is how we learn to rejoice always - So rejoice……..JMJ


Sunday, December 21, 2025

Obedience is the key - If God said so - Its so - All day, everyday and three times next Tuesday


Today in the Gospel of St Matthew Joseph is given instructions…And they seem on the surface to be utterly ridiculous instructions….But knowing from whom the instructions came from….He did as he was told - The question today - Do we?……….."Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home. For it is through the Holy Spirit that this child has been conceived in her. She will bear a son and you are to name him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins. "All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall name him Emmanuel, which means "God is with us." When Joseph awoke, he did as the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took his wife into his home.”………………There is something about being obedient that “rubs people the wrong way”…….We see it in children at an early age…You can tell them something so basic, something that is not only in their best interests but makes perfect sense….And they will not listen to you….And this behavior carries on into our adulthood…..People don’t listen and as a result - They suffer……We see this behavior from the very beginning in the Garden of Eden all the way to the present age…Today in the Gospel, St Joseph is told something by God that seemed impossible…Yet Joseph was obedient…..Just think if Joseph did not listen - Where would the world be today?…….Our Lady tells us in Scripture these words…”Do what he tells you”….So again, I will ask the question - Do we?……The virtue of obedience is a vital virtue if we want to enter into the kingdom of heaven….God gives us the Sacraments and through living a life of Sacramental grace, we are able to execute on all the requests of God - Not perfectly - But we “get the job done” - Making the impossible possible…But before we execute on God’s “asks”…He have to trust him and even more importantly then that - We have to be obedient to him……St John tells us very plainly….“If you love me, you will keep my commandments.”……Love is not a word, its an action….If we love God, we will not only listen to him but also be obedient to him…..That includes being obedient to the Church he founded - One can not separate Christ the head, from the Church which is the body…..Are we obedient?…..The answer to that question will be evaluated on “the final exam”


“Paul, a slave of Christ Jesus, called to be an apostle and set apart for the gospel of God”

Do we believe we “know better” than God?……Do we “think” we know better than the one Church God founded and has lasted for 2000 years?….Every time we “think otherwise”, these two questions should come to our mind……There is nothing that God or the Catholic Church asks of us which cannot be done…That is not the problem - We either think we know better or we don’t do as we are asked because its hard….In the spiritual life, there is no such thing as “cheap grace”…..And if we reject “the Cross”, which comes with being a practicing Catholic, we reject Christ himself…..Our world today “thinks” we can have it both ways - Reject the Cross and receive Jesus on our terms….My friends - It does not work that way…….But if we are obedient, we will bear fruit for the Kingdom of God….We will be a visible sign to an unbelieving world and many hearts and minds will change as a result….But in order for that to happen, we must embrace rejection by the world and embrace the Cross….There is no other way….“Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how many times I yearned to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her young under her wings, but you were unwilling!”……..In order to live in this way…We must prioritize our interior life…Daily prayer, weekly fasting and living a Sacramental life…..As the saying goes - Those who pray stay and those who don’t run away……To embrace the Cross and live an obedient life is hard - Let’s call it what it is…But if we do it, we will bear fruit for the Kingdom of God and save our soul…A small price to pay - So please - Consider this day to pay it.

“Through him we have received the grace of apostleship, to bring about the obedience of faith, for the sake of his name, among all the Gentiles”

Today St Joseph in the Gospel read to us at Mass is asked to do the impossible…But he does it…How about us?….As Catholics living in a pagan world - Do we live like everyone else?……..Do we “stand apart”?….Do we preach the fullness of the Truth from the pulpits of our Churches…Do we “water down” the Gospel message to appease the masses?….Are we open to life in our marriages?……Do we reject comfort for the sake of the Kingdom of God?………My friends - All these questions are on the “final exam”…..I am telling you this only because its true…….Obedience is the key - If God said so - Its so - All day, everyday and three times next Tuesday…………..JMJ




Saturday, December 20, 2025

"May it be done to me according to your word” - That is how we "get in the game"


Today at Holy Mass we hear in the Gospel of St Luke the story about Mary’s YES……”Mary said, “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her”…….Clearly this was big…Mary’s YES shook the foundations of the world…But what about our YES?……Mary was perfect and we are not - I get it - However, that does not mean God can not do great things in and through us…..The world is not convinced that God can do more with your life’s choices then you can……I sometimes step back and wonder when I see so many talented people I know…..Gifted in so many ways…If only those people and those gifts were directed towards God and his Kingdom….What the world fails to see is, everything we build from a secular prospective dies with us…Whether its the building of a business, the accumulation of great wealth, the acquisition of an education…All these things die with us….But what if we used those things to build the Kingdom of God?…….This is the legacy that lasts - The only one that lasts….This is what Our Lady did and to this very day, the world still speaks of her…..We must learn to “play the long game”…To stop playing “checkers” and start playing “chess”…..Build your life upon a foundation that lasts and employ the gifts given to you for the greater glory of God…If only we saw the world through this lens - And stopped chasing “shadows and dust”


“Therefore the Lord himself will give you this sign: the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall name him Emmanuel.”

How will people remember you?….Or…..A better question may be - Who will remember you in say fifty to hundred years?……If we read history or literature, we will find that the only thing that lasts the test of time are saints and works of art and literature…Everything else is forgotten - EVERYTHING…This is a factual statement and its a stark reality we should all consider when making our life’s choices…What are you working for?…What are you building?…..Cardinal John Joseph O'Connor was a brilliant man who became the Cardinal of New York City….That alone is some achievement if you ask me….But how will he be remembered? - Say in one hundred years?……Secular people, as smart as some of them are evaluate achievements in the short term sadly…..God however does not…...The measure of one’s life is the “lasting fruit” that we bear in our life…..Back to why I bring up Cardinal O'Connor……Over time, even Cardinals of the Church are forgotten……For a short time they were powerful men in the Church and in the world……Managing multi-million dollar budgets…..Speaking in front of tens of thousands…Writing books etc, etc etc - The list goes on…But ultimately, they too are forgotten…..But not Cardinal O'Connor…Why?…Because Cardinal O'Connor was “playing chess”…..Cardinal O'Connor “played the long game”…….Probably through an inspiration of the Holy Spirit, in and through his deep prayer life - Cardinal O'Connor founded the Sisters of Life, which is a religious order of woman who promote the culture of life in the United States and throughout the world….Since the founding of this religious order in 1991, when eight women gave their life to this work of God - The order has grown exponentially….They have helped countless families, women and children....And this work will continue - Take that to the bank!…….....This all happened because a very gifted man - Cardinal John Joseph O'Connor understood “what lasts and what does not last” - That is the measure of true intelligence if you ask me…..This will be Cardinal O'Connor’s legacy in my view - His founding of the Sisters of Life…..A legacy that will live on and continue to bear fruit for the Kingdom of God and as a result, the great name of Cardinal John Joseph O'Connor will live on….How about you?…What will be your legacy?….Are we chasing “shadows and dust”?…………Scripture is very clear - So take a moment and pay attention! - “If God so clothes the grass of the field, which grows today and is thrown into the oven tomorrow, will he not much more provide for you, O you of little faith? So do not worry and say, ‘What are we to eat?’ or ‘What are we to drink?’ or ‘What are we to wear?’ All these things the pagans seek. Your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom [of God] and his righteousness, and all these things will be given you besides.”……..Employ all your gifts towards the building of the Kingdom of God - “Play the long game”……Its the “smart play”

“O Key of David, opening the gates of God's eternal Kingdom: come and free the prisoners of darkness!”

Today at Mass we hear about “Mary’s YES”…....How about ours?……If only we were convinced that God can do more with our life then we can…..Sadly the world is not convinced - But I am here to tell you - I am!!!!!……....God is real and the measure of a life well spent is the fruit that is bore throughout the course of that life and even produced well beyond it…....Our actions speak and so do the outcomes of those actions….........Commit fully to God!…..Trust that he will use you to do great things!……Still not convinced?….Even after reading the lives of countless saints over the course of 2000 years - Men and woman, who like Our Lady gave their unconditional YES and to this day their work and name lives on for centuries in some cases…..All we as Catholics have to do is “follow the blue print”….....If we do, God’s Holy Spirit will animate our life and we will in turn “bear fruit” that will last…..Still not convinced? - Its time to "put down the cup and reach for the gallon"! - But before we can “play the long game” - We must be "in the game" - So get in "the game"!……”May it be done to me according to your word” - That is how we "get in the game"………JMJ