Today at Holy Mass we hear in the first reading as well as in the Gospel from St John….John, the beloved disciple has a lot to say!…..…In the first reading John warns his people and us…He tells them that….. “Just as you heard that the antichrist was coming, so now many antichrists have appeared”…Yet he ends his message with….”I write to you not because you do not know the truth but because you do, and because every lie is alien to the truth”….The Truth is written on every human heart - And we ALL hear it…….Yet……We disregard it - Or ignore it - Or pretend to not hear it…..Catholics must be different!….The great Fr John Harden SJ, who was declared a Servant of God by the Church said it best….Catholics must know the Truth, Speak the Truth, Live the Truth & Suffer for the Truth…..Is this what is happening from our pulpits and pews across America?……….It appears to me, we are unwilling to do this…..Again, St John tells us……”I write to you not because you do not know the truth but because you do” - So what are we going to do about it, as we like to say in New Jersey!…….St John goes on in the Gospel today….”From his fullness we have all received, grace in place of grace, because while the law was given through Moses, grace and truth came through Jesus Christ.”……….We have been given everything we need as Catholics…..By living a Sacramental life, through daily prayer and weekly fasting…And of course living a sacrificial life…By doing those things - We receive “grace in place of grace”…And as St Paul wrote so eloquently……“My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness. I will rather boast most gladly of my weaknesses, in order that the power of Christ may dwell with me.”…I got some news for you…If Catholic don’t start standing up in America, no one will…Why?…Because we have been given the most - Do you understand that!…We have Jesus Christ fully present in the Sacraments….If we don’t utilize this great gift - Shame on us!
Wednesday, December 31, 2025
Catholics have been given everything……The “food is on the table - Its time to eat”……The train leaves with you or without you
Tuesday, December 30, 2025
Maybe that dream is not a dream after all
Today at Holy Mass in the first reading St John draws a line in the sand….He discusses how “the things” of this world are passing and that attachment to those “things” lead to distancing ones self from God….”Do not love the world or the things of the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, sensual lust, enticement for the eyes, and a pretentious life, is not from the Father but is from the world. Yet the world and its enticement are passing away. But whoever does the will of God remains forever.”…….This statement by St John goes against just about every one of our American sensibilities…..It brings to the forefront of our mind what is truly important and what gets disregarded….While we live in this world, clearly we need certain material things to provide for our family…But materialism, which is so pervasive in American culture leads one to forget what is most important….All the “things” we have will not comfort us when we are alone on our death bed….Only a life detached from materialism can lead us to where we want to go….And only God can give us what the world can never give us - Which is peace, lasting joy and eternal life
Monday, December 29, 2025
That is how we “see” like Simeon…..”so that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.”
Today at Holy Mass we hear in the Gospel of St Luke the story of Christ being presented in the temple…As many know, this is the fourth decade of the Joyful Mysteries of the Rosary, which is prayed every Monday and Saturday….For the purposes of this reflection I want to focus on the character of Simeon in this story….....How did Simeon know want he knew?…….”Now there was a man in Jerusalem whose name was Simeon. This man was righteous and devout, awaiting the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him. It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he should not see death before he had seen the Christ of the Lord. He came in the Spirit into the temple; and when the parents brought in the child Jesus to perform the custom of the law in regard to him, he took him into his arms and blessed God, saying: "Lord, now let your servant go in peace; your word has been fulfilled: my own eyes have seen the salvation which you prepared in the sight of every people, a light to reveal you to the nations and the glory of your people Israel." The child's father and mother were amazed at what was said about him; and Simeon blessed them and said to Mary his mother, "Behold, this child is destined for the fall and rise of many in Israel, and to be a sign that will be contradicted (and you yourself a sword will pierce) so that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.”…….Scripture tells us that Simeon prayed day and night in the temple along with Anna…..That is how Simeon “saw” what he saw…....He was a man of prayer……When a Catholic prays and utilizes the Sacraments - We “see”…..The Sacrament of Reconciliation “clears away” the sins, which fog our vision….And when we receive the Blessed Sacrament in the state of grace - The life of Christ penetrates deeply into our soul…Such a person sees what the world does not….....Sin blinds our eyes…....And only the Sacraments can remove sin from our life and allow us to see….....Why else did Simeon see?….He was a man of deep prayer…....Time spent mediating on the life of Christ when praying the Rosary and time spent before the exposed Blessed Sacrament in silence again opens our mind and heart to receive grace, which in turn effects what we “see” in the world….So many today in our society disregard time spent in prayer, as well as disregard living a Sacramental life…..As a result, the world is blind and walks around wounded and lost….And what does Scripture tells us about this predicament?…….”They are blind guides [of the blind]. If a blind person leads a blind person, both will fall into a pit.”……This is why a life of prayer is so important….Like Simeon, we too can “see” but that kind of vision only comes from a pure heart....…”Blessed are the pure of heart for they shall see God”…..That is how we “see” like Simeon and avoid falling into “the pit.”
Sunday, December 28, 2025
The family that prays together - Stays together.....That is not just a “catchy phrase” - Its the Truth
Today the Universal Church commemorates the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph…..The family is the smallest cell of every society….And in America, the family is clearly under attack. More than half of American marriages end in divorce, which produces disorder across our society….What is driving this problem?…..Marriage was established by God and marriage is a Sacrament….Why is it a Sacrament?…The answer - To lived married life and meet the demands of self-sacrifical love, which is required by both the man and the woman is difficult….This is why God instituted marriage to be a Sacrament and this is the greatest mistake of our society - God is not the center of our marriages….And when God is not the center of a marriage, selfishness is not far behind, which ultimately erodes a marriage……Sacramental grace elevates human nature….And this grace is essential for a marriage to thrive…..What we see today in our children is a bi-product of Godless marriages….Children lost, wounded and broken - To see this one does not have to look far…The answer to all we see - A God centered marriage - Why? - Because God centered marriages work!…….The family that prays together stays together - But it’s not just about “staying together” - Its about thriving!….Do we know what marriage is all about?…How do we define what love is?….There is the key question - Love is self-sacrifical…And God’s grace helps us to live this way….To view love or marriage any other way is a dangerous proposition….But don’t take my words for it - Look at the statistics - In fact - Just look out your front door….Many people talk about “fixing America” - Well, that “fix begins and ends” with God and family…..God strengthens family life and strong families produce a strong nation - There is the answer to many of America problems in a “nut-shell”……Invite God into your marriage and watch how it is transformed.
Friday, December 26, 2025
Head up - Carry on - Full Steam ahead!
Today at Holy Mass we are told that mankind not only rejected the message of Jesus Christ but if we embrace his message, mankind will reject us too….”Jesus said to his disciples: "Beware of men, for they will hand you over to courts and scourge you in their synagogues, and you will be led before governors and kings for my sake as a witness before them and the pagans. When they hand you over, do not worry about how you are to speak or what you are to say. You will be given at that moment what you are to say. For it will not be you who speak but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you. Brother will hand over brother to death, and the father his child; children will rise up against parents and have them put to death. You will be hated by all because of my name, but whoever endures to the end will be saved”….Why such a message the day after Christmas?…..Because Jesus came to the world to being a message - Remember what he said? - "I am the TRUTH" - And from the very beginning, the world rejected that message - And still does…We are reminded of this today - That if we follow Christ, we will be “different” and that the world will reject us too….This reality keeps many from fully embracing their Catholic faith….Within each human being, from the time we are children, there is a deep need to belong…..To follow our Catholic faith, which is aggressively rejected to this very day, will lead many to be repelled from those who live as the Church and Jesus calls us to live…..So what happens? - We “go along to get along”…..We “water-down the gospel”….....We “gloss over” the challenging parts…..We conveniently “leave out” the mention of sin, the devil and hell……..What happens when we do that? - We reject Christ……There is no such thing as being a Catholic without the embrace of the Cross….To think other wise is simply a self-delusion…..Our world desperately needs God and if we want to be a light to the world, we cannot be “like the world”……To be such a person, one must accept the “cost”……Accept it and rejoice.
Thursday, December 25, 2025
Christmas Day is about “changing direction” upon seeing the child born for us all…Its about “departing by another way”
Today across the world, Christmas bells ring….Christ's birth is acknowledged in the four corners of the world, by those who are pious Catholics to agnostics in modern cities…..”How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him who brings glad tidings, announcing peace, bearing good news, announcing salvation, and saying to Zion, “Your God is King!”……….The impact of this day, that took place in a remote corner of the Middle East 2000 years ago has impacted us all…..While Christmas is recognized…..Is the message of Christ recognized?….We all celebrate on this day but do we contemplate the words of Jesus Christ and more importantly, do we utilize the gifts of the one Church Christ founded to live out his word by and through grace?…..” He was in the world, and the world came to be through him, but the world did not know him. He came to what was his own, but his own people did not accept him. But to those who did accept him he gave power to become children of God, to those who believe in his name, who were born not by natural generation nor by human choice nor by a man’s decision but of God.”……….Today a child is born for the salvation of the world…..He was born right under the eyes of mankind and most men “missed” his coming and the majority overlooked the significance of his birth at the time……Is today any different?…..Christmas is not about presents and lights…Christmas is about Jesus Christ - The world’s one and only hope…………”And the Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us, and we saw his glory, the glory as of the Father’s only Son, full of grace and truth”……..Do we look past the “bling” of the materialism of Christmas sold to us by corporations and the mainstream media?…..Do we “see” as the shepherds did the star in the sky marking the humble place of the birth of Christ?…..The same star shines bright to this very day. - Do we see it?
Wednesday, December 24, 2025
The world waits and at times even doubts - But right when the world is about to give up - God delivers
Today at Holy Mass we are told in the first reading from the Book of Samuel that God will rise up an heir to save his people…..God works in plain sight “under the radar”…But make no mistake - He is at work………”I will raise up your heir after you, sprung from your loins, and I will make his Kingdom firm. I will be a father to him, and he shall be a son to me. Your house and your Kingdom shall endure forever before me; your throne shall stand firm forever”……..Historically speaking - Whenever mankind “screws up” everything beyond a point where nothing can be done to fix the situation - God ALWAYS rises up a person to address the situation….Again, all you have to do is read and see for your self - In comes a saint and somehow the people regain their "sight" and alter their direction….God has not abandoned his people and he makes every “crooked road” straight…But why do people respond to saints? - Because saints radiate the love of God…Saints make individuals and society look deep within themselves…This is why we must strive to become a holy people…..Each and every Catholic - If you want to make a difference in this life - The only thing that will make people stop and even consider changing is the example of a holy life….Whether you are a priest, bishop, cardinal or sitting in the back row of the Church…..People do not listen to words most times - But the witness of a holy life stops traffic….And this is why we hear today at Mass a promise from God…That he has not forgotten the human race…He will rise up saints - Because only saints change the world.
Tuesday, December 23, 2025
Its going to happen - Like it or not - So be apart of it
Today at Holy Mass in the first reading from the Book of Malachi an interesting two lines jumped out at me…..”For he is like the refiner’s fire, or like the fuller’s lye. He will sit refining and purifying silver, and he will purify the sons of Levi, Refining them like gold or like silver that they may offer due sacrifice to the LORD.”…….Malachi is telling the world and us that we are not ready yet for the Lord’s second coming….”He will purify the sons of Levi, Refining them”……God continues to purify the world and the Church…Sanctifying it and making it holy…All things, both good and bad work towards this end….Notice again the words of Malachi - “the refiner’s fire” - The process of purifying gold or silver requires fire….Its the fire that burns away all the impurities in the metal - Leaving only what is pure…This is a good analogy as to what we see in the Church, the world and even within ourselves……..Mankind in and through his free will “screws everything up” more times then we can all count…But God “works through” all those screw ups….He uses them to purify both us and the Church……Before Father Joseph Ratzinger, who become the future Pope Benedict XVI, in 1969 made a prophetic statement during a radio address……I have referenced this statement often in these reflections…..I do this because I believe what Pope Benedict stated is “spot on”…………..Here is the statement in its entirety
Monday, December 22, 2025
Open eyes make for an open heart and an open heart opens our hands to others - This is how we learn to rejoice always - So rejoice
Today at Holy Mass Our Lady proclaims her thanks to the Lord for everything he has done for her…..Mary’s life was never easy….We are told in Scripture that “you yourself a sword will pierce”……Yet - Mary gives thanks…..How about us?…..“My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my savior. for he has looked upon his lowly servant. From this day all generations will call me blessed: the Almighty has done great things for me, and holy is his Name. He has mercy on those who fear him in every generation. He has shown the strength of his arm, and has scattered the proud in their conceit. He has cast down the mighty from their thrones and has lifted up the lowly. He has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich he has sent away empty. He has come to the help of his servant Israel for he remembered his promise of mercy, the promise he made to our fathers, to Abraham and his children for ever.”………The ability to "see" all the gifts given to us is in-and-of-itself a gift…..So many people, myself included, take for granted so many things…..Our Lady understood - We must learn to understand as well - To see everything we have as a gift…..And that we must use those gifts to serve God and our neighbor……Those who grasp this idea are full of joy and those who don’t are not……Because it is in “giving that we receive”…But before we give of ourselves and of the gifts we have been given - We must we able to “see” clearly and acknowledge the “giver of all gifts”…..How easy it is to be blinded by material success….To ignore others…To be selfish…..The happiest people on the earth know how to give thanks and give….Aspire to be one of those people.
Sunday, December 21, 2025
Obedience is the key - If God said so - Its so - All day, everyday and three times next Tuesday
Today in the Gospel of St Matthew Joseph is given instructions…And they seem on the surface to be utterly ridiculous instructions….But knowing from whom the instructions came from….He did as he was told - The question today - Do we?……….."Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home. For it is through the Holy Spirit that this child has been conceived in her. She will bear a son and you are to name him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins. "All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall name him Emmanuel, which means "God is with us." When Joseph awoke, he did as the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took his wife into his home.”………………There is something about being obedient that “rubs people the wrong way”…….We see it in children at an early age…You can tell them something so basic, something that is not only in their best interests but makes perfect sense….And they will not listen to you….And this behavior carries on into our adulthood…..People don’t listen and as a result - They suffer……We see this behavior from the very beginning in the Garden of Eden all the way to the present age…Today in the Gospel, St Joseph is told something by God that seemed impossible…Yet Joseph was obedient…..Just think if Joseph did not listen - Where would the world be today?…….Our Lady tells us in Scripture these words…”Do what he tells you”….So again, I will ask the question - Do we?……The virtue of obedience is a vital virtue if we want to enter into the kingdom of heaven….God gives us the Sacraments and through living a life of Sacramental grace, we are able to execute on all the requests of God - Not perfectly - But we “get the job done” - Making the impossible possible…But before we execute on God’s “asks”…He have to trust him and even more importantly then that - We have to be obedient to him……St John tells us very plainly….“If you love me, you will keep my commandments.”……Love is not a word, its an action….If we love God, we will not only listen to him but also be obedient to him…..That includes being obedient to the Church he founded - One can not separate Christ the head, from the Church which is the body…..Are we obedient?…..The answer to that question will be evaluated on “the final exam”
Saturday, December 20, 2025
"May it be done to me according to your word” - That is how we "get in the game"
Today at Holy Mass we hear in the Gospel of St Luke the story about Mary’s YES……”Mary said, “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her”…….Clearly this was big…Mary’s YES shook the foundations of the world…But what about our YES?……Mary was perfect and we are not - I get it - However, that does not mean God can not do great things in and through us…..The world is not convinced that God can do more with your life’s choices then you can……I sometimes step back and wonder when I see so many talented people I know…..Gifted in so many ways…If only those people and those gifts were directed towards God and his Kingdom….What the world fails to see is, everything we build from a secular prospective dies with us…Whether its the building of a business, the accumulation of great wealth, the acquisition of an education…All these things die with us….But what if we used those things to build the Kingdom of God?…….This is the legacy that lasts - The only one that lasts….This is what Our Lady did and to this very day, the world still speaks of her…..We must learn to “play the long game”…To stop playing “checkers” and start playing “chess”…..Build your life upon a foundation that lasts and employ the gifts given to you for the greater glory of God…If only we saw the world through this lens - And stopped chasing “shadows and dust”