Today at Holy Mass we hear in the Gospel of St Matthew about Jesus’ family tree….The reading is long with all kinds of “weird” names…..”Abijah the father of Asaph. Asaph became the father of Jehoshaphat, Jehoshaphat the father of Joram, Joram the father of Uzziah”………and on and on……The reading today ends with this - To give us some prospective on just how long God took to bring about the time of Christ’s birth….”Thus the total number of generations from Abraham to David is fourteen generations; from David to the Babylonian exile, fourteen generations; from the Babylonian exile to the Christ, fourteen generations.”….God’s time is not our time and God’s ways are not our ways……After hearing this litany of names and after pondering all the time that passed from Abraham to the birth of Jesus himself…Do we forget that Jesus is going to return once again?….Do we lose sight of this reality!?!…..Yes - Two thousand years has passed since Christ was crucified…..To us, that is a long time - To God, that is not even a second!……Christ will return - The question is - Are we ready?…What are we doing to prepare our hearts for his return?
Wednesday, December 17, 2025
How we prepare determines what we “see” - And what we “see” dictates what we do
Tuesday, December 16, 2025
God speaks to us through the events of our life - Those who respond thrive - And those who don’t - Frankly don’t
Today at Holy Mass Jesus in the Gospel of St Matthew tells us a story about a man who changes his mind…..He first refuses to follow instructions, but later does….What makes such a man come to this revelation?…….”A man had two sons. He came to the first and said, ‘Son, go out and work in the vineyard today.’ The son said in reply, ‘I will not,’ but afterwards he changed his mind and went. The man came to the other son and gave the same order. He said in reply, ‘Yes, sir,’ but did not go. Which of the two did his father’s will?” They answered, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Amen, I say to you, tax collectors and prostitutes are entering the Kingdom of God before you. When John came to you in the way of righteousness, you did not believe him; but tax collectors and prostitutes did. Yet even when you saw that, you did not later change your minds and believe him.”…….One of the greatest pieces of advice given to me was from a childhood friend who was not even religious…He told me - “Joe - Life is man’s greatest teacher”…The more I pondered that statement - And the older I got - The more I knew he was right!….Why is that?…Because God speaks to us through our life…..Most people don’t listen to “good advice”….We ignore the Church…We ignore our parents….We ignore the lessons from history…Only in time to “find out” that everything told to us was correct….But sadly, most of us find that out for our selves…..We are told in the pages of Scripture the following in the Book of Isaiah……”I will lay waste mountains and hills, all their undergrowth I will dry up; I will turn the rivers into marshes, and the marshes I will dry up. I will lead the blind on a way they do not know; by paths they do not know I will guide them. I will turn darkness into light before them, and make crooked ways straight. These are my promises: I made them, I will not forsake them”…….I tell my children all the time - “Making mistakes is apart of life but its the person who learns from their mistakes that become successful”…..How do we learn from our mistakes? - The first step is to acknowledge that we made a mistake in the first place…Not blame other people or circumstances….But to say - “That was me” - As we say in New Jersey - “My bad”….What is the next step?…To say - “I am sorry”…Some people can never say those words and frankly that is a terrible mind set to have…Because we all make mistakes, such a person who can’t admit they are wrong and say they are sorry ultimately destroys all their relationships, as well as their relationship with God….What is the next step?….To allow God’s grace in your life so you don’t do the same bad thing again….All humans are flawed and because of that reality, we need God’s grace to live the lives we ALL want…To deny that grace to penetrate our lives is simply a foolish decision…As I tell my children when they do something wrong and I correct them…”You are not hurting me - You are only hurting yourself”…..There are no humble people in hell - And conversely - There are surely no prideful people in heaven….Learn from your mistakes - “Own them”…Say your sorry to those you love and to God when you make a mistake…And rely on God’s grace to make you better….There you have it - Choose to ignore what I just wrote or put it into practice….Life is our greatest teacher - Those who learn from their mistakes succeed and those who don’t sadly don’t.
Monday, December 15, 2025
Maybe it’s time to reach for the “top shelf”? - Its 100 proof and it’s the “Real McCoy”
Today at Holy Mass in the Gospel of St Matthew, the leaders of Jesus day try to trick him…But Jesus beat them at their own game….Why? - Because the Truth cuts through all the nonsense…..You don’t have to be the “smartest person in the room” to speak the Truth - All you have to do is speak it….The Truth is like a lion - Let it loose - It will defend itself……….."By what authority are you doing these things? And who gave you this authority?" Jesus said to them in reply, "I shall ask you one question, and if you answer it for me, then I shall tell you by what authority I do these things. Where was John's baptism from? Was it of heavenly or of human origin?" They discussed this among themselves and said, "If we say 'Of heavenly origin,' he will say to us, 'Then why did you not believe him?' But if we say, 'Of human origin,' we fear the crowd, for they all regard John as a prophet." So they said to Jesus in reply, "We do not know." He himself said to them, "Neither shall I tell you by what authority I do these things.”…………..What prevents us from speaking and living the Truth?…….A couple of things - For one, many don’t think its practical….Secondly, we are afraid…..To address the first point - To live your Catholic faith and embrace the fullness of Christ’s Truth is not only practical but its necessary if we want to spend eternity with Jesus in heaven but its also a formula for a good and thriving life here on earth…Yes, we all fall short, but that is why we go to Confession monthly with a Priest - To confess our sins and “try again” with the help of God’s grace…..And as far as being afraid….God’s grace will overshadow us and help us…..Grace is a powerful “tool” at our disposal - If only we avail ourselves to it……Jesus tells us point blank - “Without me you can do nothing”…..And if you think you are going to boldly live your Catholic faith in the public square without the help of Sacramental grace - I got some news for you - Its not going to happen…….Jesus today shows us that we should be confident to live and speak the truth but before that happens, we must be formed in our Catholic faith - This requires reading and asking questions and then doing more reading…..If we do not know what and why the Catholic Church professes to be the Truth - How can we live it?…This task primarily falls to families, but it also falls upon the Church itself….The Truth needs to be boldly spoken in our schools and from the pulpits at Mass…..We need to stop being concerned that “the people” will not accept it in the pews…..To think this way is not to think as Jesus Christ thought or lived for that matter…..God does not lower his standards - Its for mankind to aspire to live up to God’s standards - Not the other way around…And we do that through Sacramental grace.
Sunday, December 14, 2025
To think we don’t need God is a HUGE mistake - History screams of this reality - Its time to write a new chapter - Don’t you think?
Today at Holy Mass in the Gospel of St Matthew Jesus asks the crowd why they went into the desert to see John the Baptist…..Was it to see a “circus side show”?…..Why were they interested?…..John the Baptist had one driving purpose - To save souls….Nothing else mattered to him….”Jesus began to speak to the crowds about John, "What did you go out to the desert to see? A reed swayed by the wind? Then what did you go out to see? Someone dressed in fine clothing? Those who wear fine clothing are in royal palaces. Then why did you go out? To see a prophet? Yes, I tell you, and more than a prophet. This is the one about whom it is written: Behold, I am sending my messenger ahead of you; he will prepare your way before you.”…….So here is the question for today - Why do we go to Mass?……Do we go because we have too?…..Do we go because it’s apart of the culture we were raised with?……Or………Do we go to witness the greatest sacrifice ever to have been made - The son of God giving his life for the world…..Do we go because without Sacramental grace, we are both poor and lost?……These are questions we must ask ourself and this is why Jesus today asked the crowd - Why did you go to see John the Baptist?………Were you interested in what he had to say?…….Were you open to change your life as John suggested?……The same questions apply today.
Saturday, December 13, 2025
So keep an eye out and don’t be surprised to be surprised!
Today at Holy Mass in the Gospel of St Matthew Jesus’ friends ask him if a sign will come from heaven….Jesus tells them that the sign did come - And no one paid any attention to it……”As they were coming down from the mountain, the disciples asked Jesus, "Why do the scribes say that Elijah must come first?" He said in reply, "Elijah will indeed come and restore all things; but I tell you that Elijah has already come, and they did not recognize him but did to him whatever they pleased”……Our world does not want to hear it…..But the mistake of many who are trying their best to be “that sign” - Is they only us words…The sign our world needs will not come in the form of words……The great Vietnamese Cardinal Nguyen Van Than, who was imprisoned for thirteen years for his witness to the faith put it this way……
Friday, December 12, 2025
So simple!…..Don’t make it complicated - Its simple
Today is a VERY special day…..Its is the Feast day of Our Lady of Guadalupe…..In 1531 Our Lady appeared to a peasant (Juan Diego) in what is known today as Mexico City…She asked him to build a Church….So Juan Diego went to the Bishop, who thought he was crazy…..So Juan Diego went home and thought the request would never happen…Think again!….Our Lady appeared to Juan Diego again and said go back to the Bishop - Which he did - When he went this time he took off his cloak and roses fell from it when they were not in season…In addition, a miraculous image appeared of Our Lady on the cloak…That cloak and the image can be seen to this very day in Mexico City…Guess what happened next? - The Church was built….And within seven years, eight million native people were converted to the Catholic faith…….Miracles happen…..Our Lady is like an atomic bomb!…….When we look at our world today….The conflicts - The blind leading the blind….No politician can “fix this” - Get it out of your head right now!…..This is why we appeal to Our Lady…..This is what Mary said to Juan Diego when he doubted her………”Am I not here, I, who am your Mother? Are you not under my shadow and protection? Am I not the source of your joy? Are you not in the hollow of my mantle, in the crossing of my arms? Do you need anything more? Let nothing else worry you”………..In our modern world, we no longer believe in miracles…Maybe YOU are the miracle the world is waiting for……Go to Mary, she will magnify all our works and intentions.
Thursday, December 11, 2025
Commit - “Burn the Boats”…..Its all or nothing - Be that voice
Today at Holy Mass we hear Jesus talk about John the Baptist…….In his description of John to the people…Jesus says something I believe to be interesting……”From the days of John the Baptist until now, the Kingdom of heaven suffers violence, and the violent are taking it by force. All the prophets and the law prophesied up to the time of John. And if you are willing to accept it, he is Elijah, the one who is to come. Whoever has ears ought to hear.”……..John was not having it as we say in New Jersey!…..He was a radical man who spoke plain truth…….Notice what Jesus said about John today……”if you are willing to accept it”………So that is the question for us today……Are we “willing to accept” the Truth?….Jesus is the Truth - Do we “water his words down”?….John the Baptist did not…..He was a plain spoken man……He did not care about “being invited to the party”……Do we?…..What holds us back from speaking and living the Truth?……..What do you think would happen if a John the Baptist figure came amongst the Catholic Church today? - Would he be banished?……If you believe he would be - Then we all must ponder deeply in our own hearts our own personal commitment to God and his Church - Do we really believe what we say we believe?……Jesus was not a man of half-measure, nor was John the Baptist….And frankly, neither should we as Catholics today in the pews….To me, its all or nothing……I am not interested in “half-hearted watered down" Catholicism….I did not give my life to worldly church…….When the Church operates the way it was ordained too, it is like a thunderbolt crashing upon the earth…. Be that thunderbolt! - Remember - Its all or nothing!
Wednesday, December 10, 2025
If you really want to impress God - Tell him your sins - Outside of that - He is not impressed!
Today at Holy Mass we are told something from the Gospel of St Matthew that probably 95% of the world does not believe…….”For my yoke is easy, and my burden light”….Let’s be honest - We do not believe this!……Our world thinks God is a slave driver - That he gives us his laws to make us miserable - He tells us things that cannot be done……..So here is the deal…I am from New Jersey, so I am going to tell it to ya straight…We have two choices in life.....…Either we choose the “yoke” of Christ” or we chose the “yoke” of sin…....There is not a third choice and not making a conscience choice is a choice!….When we choose the yoke of Christ, this choice comes with deep peace, lasting joy and grace, which allows us to do EVERYTHING the Natural Law and the commandments of God requires of us in our state of life - We do these things imperfectly with God's grace, but we "get the job done"!….However, when we choose the yoke of sin, we have no peace, we stare up at the ceiling at night unable to sleep, all the things we have only give us pleasure for limited periods of time only to leave us empty and wanting more, our joy is fleeting and when death comes “knocking at our door" - we are terrified……Again, these are the ONLY two choices that mankind has - Door number one or Door number two - And the devil has convinced the world to make the wrong choice…..Jesus came to give us life and give it to us abundantly….God only gives, He never takes - But we do not believe this…..All you have to do is surround yourself with Catholics who are in the state of grace….Notice how they live - Look with your own eyes and “see” for your self…Then you tell me - Jesus goes on today in St Matthew's Gospel…….........”Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for yourselves”………..Either we don’t believe what Jesus tells us or we do and are afraid……Is there anything in this world that is worth taking your peace?……We all must answer that question for ourself - And again, no answer is an answer.
Tuesday, December 9, 2025
A father loves all his children - Even the ones that make bad choices - Once again - Do we?
Today at Holy Mass we are told in the Gospel of St Matthew that Jesus gives value to the lost - He sees value where the world sees no value…He goes to great lengths to seek out what people think cannot be found….This is the heart of God……Do we aspire to be like this? - To see value in what the world dismisses?……”If a man has a hundred sheep and one of them goes astray, will he not leave the ninety-nine in the hills and go in search of the stray? And if he finds it, amen, I say to you, he rejoices more over it than over the ninety-nine that did not stray. In just the same way, it is not the will of your heavenly Father that one of these little ones be lost.”………Looking back on the pontificate of Pope Francis, whenever I read this passage from St Matthew, I always think of Francis…..His pontificate was very misunderstood and the media being the media manipulated many of the statements he made…While Pope Francis was a flawed man, as we all are….In my opinion, he lived out this Gospel passage read to us at Mass…Like Pope Francis or not - Agree with his methods or his approach or not - He was willing to leave the 99 for the one who was lost…….Once again, we can disagree with the way he did this but I believe in my heart of hearts that Pope Francis was sincere….His only motive was to bring the “one who was lost” back to “the fold”……..There is something about Francis’s willingness to be misunderstood that I admire…..Many in the Catholic world did not understand him……And as they were at times hypercritical of his pontificate…He continued to seek out “the one” that was lost……Many “conservative Catholics” may read this reflection and have a huge issue with it….Now I will speak personally, Pope Francis at times was very unclear, I also thought he surrounded himself with clerics that embraced what is commonly referred to as “the spirit of Vatican II” - Which if you ask me was a disaster for the past sixty years...…However, Pope Francis had a deep love for the lost - And for that, I admired him for it….If we aspire to love as God loves, we can not seek to be “comfortable”…To just build a community with “perfect people”…We must invite the lost as well - How else will they learn?…..How else will the lost be found?
Monday, December 8, 2025
Mary only knows “one way” and if we take her hand - She will take us to “the front of the line” - So take her hand
Today is a very special day….Today is the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary……Why is Our Lady so important?…Why? - Because from her Immaculate womb came the Savior of the world…..Mary is the new Eve…..God chose her to be the vessel by which Christ would come to us……There are some who have a “problem” with Mary…..At the root of this “problem” really is just a simple misunderstanding…..Mary is not the “answer” - Jesus is…However - No one knows the son better then the Mother…And Mary ALWAYS brings what we give to her to her son….Some many say - “I go directly to Jesus”…….To address this statement I would simply say - You are imperfect - Mary is not…Therefore, what you give to Mary - She “cleans up" for you - And then delivers it to Jesus her son….Mary is perfect because she had to be…Something perfect (i.e. Jesus) could not come from something imperfect - So God spared Mary the stain of sin….Do not sell your self short - The most direct way to Christ is through his Mother…Again - why?…..Because she is perfect and you and I are not.
Sunday, December 7, 2025
How do you think that statement would “fly” today at your average Sunday Mass in America?…….Hmmmmmm
Today at Holy Mass in the Gospel of St Matthew, John the Baptist is brought to our attention…..John was not playing games!…He lived outside the “walls” of society….He lived an austere life and clearly had no concerns over social status…To put it in today’s terms - John was not politically correct in the slightest bit….Today in the Gospel, John addresses the powerful of his world……He calls them to repentance…. “When he saw many of the Pharisees and Sadducees coming to his baptism, he said to them, "You brood of vipers! Who warned you to flee from the coming wrath? Produce good fruit as evidence of your repentance. And do not presume to say to yourselves, 'We have Abraham as our father.' For I tell you, God can raise up children to Abraham from these stones. Even now the ax lies at the root of the trees. Therefore every tree that does not bear good fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire”……..Strong words indeed!……So here is the question - When was the last time we as Catholics heard such a call to repentance in America?…….Our nation murders children in the womb up until birth! - 63 million the last number I heard…..Do you think God is blind and deaf to this atrocity?…..Our nation has legalized same sex marriage - Homosexuality is completely mainstreamed…..Our nation has legalized the mutilation of minors in an attempt to “change their gender”, which not only defies reason but also defies science……Our nation legalized no fault divorce…Contraception is pervasive even among Catholics…The list goes on and on…....So - I will ask the question again - When was the last time where these atrocities were “called out”?……….How would John the Baptist be viewed by our Church today?…..Would we as Catholics, clergy and lay Catholics alike welcome his message?……Before you answer, remember what Jesus said about John the Baptist….........”Amen, I say to you, among those born of women there has been none greater than John the Baptist; yet the least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than he.”………Seems to me what the world values, God places no value what-so-ever.....Maybe we need to reevaluate some things - Ya think?
Saturday, December 6, 2025
Don’t you realize - Its through our wounds that the light enters
Today at Holy Mass as Advent moves forward……We hear once again from the Prophet Isaiah…..There are many voices clamoring for attention in our society today….Some of those voices are worth listening too - Others are not….To this very day - The voice of Isaiah shakes the foundation of the world - Speaking personally, whenever there is a reading at Mass taken from the Book of Isaiah, I am all ears….We are told today…..”On the day the LORD binds up the wounds of his people, he will heal the bruises left by his blows”……..God is not an ogre!…..Jesus came among us to heal us - Heal us from what you may say? - From our sins!…..Does our world today even believe in sin any more?……This is why Christ came - He is the Divine Physician!…..Isaiah continues…..”He will be gracious to you when you cry out, as soon as he hears he will answer you. The Lord will give you the bread you need and the water for which you thirst”…….Before this all happens, we must acknowledge our need for God - That we are sinners in need of a savior…That our “flesh is weak”……..That we are in need of grace…..In order to receive that grace, we must open our hearts to it…..Grace like rain is constantly falling from the sky, we need to “put down our umbrella” and allow that grace to cover us from head to toe…..This is how we are healed….This is how our wounds will be “bound up”…..Outside of that grace, we walk around wounded......….”At the sight of the crowds, his heart was moved with pity for them because they were troubled and abandoned, like sheep without a shepherd”………..A father sees the struggle of his children and he “does something about it”…......This is the job of every baptized Catholic…....This is why Jesus founded a Church….."The harvest is abundant but the laborers are few; so ask the master of the harvest to send out laborers for his harvest."