Monday, March 9, 2026

You worry about you


Today at Holy Mass we hear in the Gospel of St Luke about Jesus talking to a group of people from his home town of Nazareth…You would think the people who knew him best would accept what he had to say….But they did not…..He told them something rather interesting…The Jewish people were set apart by God….Yet, Jesus demonstrated to the crowd through concrete examples given to them from Scripture that while God set the Jewish people apart as the chosen people….God did not come to them many times in their need - Instead he came to the aide of foreigners…..”Indeed, I tell you, there were many widows in Israel in the days of Elijah when the sky was closed for three and a half years and a severe famine spread over the entire land. It was to none of these that Elijah was sent, but only to a widow in Zarephath in the land of Sidon. Again, there were many lepers in Israel during the time of Elisha the prophet; yet not one of them was cleansed, but only Naaman the Syrian”……As Catholics we are taught in the catechism that salvation is only found through the Catholic Church - We are saved through our Baptism and the Church…Yet, the next sentence of the Catechism is often over looked….“Although in ways known to himself God can lead those who, through no fault of their own, are ignorant of the Gospel, to that faith without which it is impossible to please him, the Church still has the obligation and also the sacred right to evangelize all men” (CCC 847-848)…In addition, contained in the documents of Vatican II (Lumen Gentium) a similar statement is made - “Those also can attain to salvation who through no fault of their own do not know the gospel of Christ or his Church, yet sincerely seek God and moved by grace strive by their deeds to do his will as it is known to them through the dictates of conscience. Nor does Divine Providence deny the helps necessary for salvation to those who, without blame on their part, have not yet arrived at an explicit knowledge of God and with his grace strive to live a good life. Whatever good or truth is found amongst them is looked upon by the Church as a preparation for the gospel (16).”……..We only “know what we know” and God is the judge of that - Not us….God is perfectly merciful and perfectly just…That means he is the one and only judge, as far as what a person knew to be true and what they honestly did not……This is why we have no right to judge others…As I tell my five children when they fight with each other and find fault with one another…I tell them repeatedly - “You worry about you”…..God tells you and I the same thing - You worry about you!


“I hope in the LORD, I trust in his word; with him there is kindness and plenteous redemption”


If you ever go to a funeral in America, you will find that everyone believes that the person who died is in heaven, regardless of the life they lead…This is a very human reaction to death but it also is not in line with perennial Catholic teaching….The Catholic Church is very clear regarding how one goes to heaven, so was Jesus Christ…..We as human beings have no authority to change what cannot be changed…However, we cannot read the hearts of men - Only God can...With that said, the Natural Law is written on the human heart….And Jesus tells us very clearly…..”So Jesus said again, “Amen, amen, I say to you, I am the gate for the sheep. All who came [before me] are thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them”…….He then goes on to say in the Gospel of John…”I have other sheep* that do not belong to this fold. These also I must lead, and they will hear my voice, and there will be one flock, one shepherd”…..As a Catholic, we must pray and give witness to the Truth, which is Jesus Christ…We are also saved through the teachings of the Church - Some may say why is that true?…For one, Jesus founded the Church and gave it authority…Secondly, we are all sinners and when we sin we must reconcile our sins to God, which can only be done Sacramentally….We are also fed by the Body and Blood of Christ, which gives us spiritual nourishment to carry our cross and live a holy life…Now if for some reason a person is not Catholic and lives according to the Natural Law, which is written on their heart - God will judge them accordingly….Our job is not to judge - Our job is to give a witness, which will make the unbelieving world question why they too are not Catholic when they see our peace and joy……This is why only saints change the world…The witness of a holy life is the “spark” that causes people to question bad choices….I have seen this first hand when I was the driver for Mother Teresa’s sisters in New York City before I was married…..People from every walk of life, some who lived very bad lives, when they encountered the Missionaries of Charity and saw how they lived and what they did for the poorest of the poor…Many of these people changed - Some even requested to be baptized…Again, I have seen this with my own two eyes..In fact, my time serving the poor closely with Mother Teresa’s sister changed me forever….Words can never do this - Only an authentic Catholic witness can…This is our task - As Catholics our first priority in life should be to strive to become a holy person…This is how God can use us - This is how we change the world - Person to Person - One person at a time!


“Send forth your light and your fidelity; they shall lead me on And bring me to your holy mountain, to your dwelling-place”


Today at Mass in the Gospel we hear about Naaman the Syrian and a widow in Zarephath in the land of Sidon…These two individuals were not Jews, which means they were not part of God’s chosen people - Yet, God came to their aide…This should tell us something…We as Catholics must view all people as children of God - Why? - Because they are!….Our Catholic faith is a gift and because we have been given such a gift, its for us to share it with the world….For those who do not accept what the Catholic faith teaches, that is for God to judge….Our “job” is to give the best example possible of what it means to be Catholic to the world around us…And we accomplish that only by God’s grace…..Again, our “job” is to allow God’s grace to animate our life…God then takes care of the rest……The words of Christ tell us very clearly…..”I have other sheep that do not belong to this fold. These also I must lead, and they will hear my voice, and there will be one flock, one shepherd”……Let God be the judge of who the “other sheep” are, who “do not belong to the fold” - In the mean time as I tell my children - You worry about you…..JMJ

Sunday, March 8, 2026

So put down your “umbrella” and feel the rain on your face!


Today at Holy Mass we heard from the Gospel of St John the story of the Samaritan woman who meets Jesus at the well…As many of us know who are very familiar with this story, this woman was public sinner….And Jesus had no issues engaging her in conversation even though she was known to be who she was - An adulterous woman…This is the first point I want to highlight in this narrative by St John…..As Catholics we should offer a hand of friendship to all people, even those who live outside the walls of the Church…Its through the vehicle of friendship that the world gets to “see” in real time what it means to “have life and have it abundantly”…And the only way one has “life within them” is to feed off the very Body and Blood of Christ in the state of grace….With that said, lets get to the part of the Gospel today that I want to highlight….After engaging this Samaritan woman in conversation, she began to understand that Jesus was “someone special” and asked him an interesting question….“Sir, give me this water, so that I may not be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water”…Clearly, this woman could tell that Jesus was not like everyone else and she wanted what he had…..But before Jesus addressed her “ask” for “life giving water” - He masterfully draws out of her the very thing that kept her from the grace of God - Her sin….”Jesus said to her, “Go call your husband and come back.” The woman answered and said to him, “I do not have a husband.” Jesus answered her, “You are right in saying, ‘I do not have a husband.’ For you have had five husbands,  and the one you have now is not your husband. What you have said is true.” The woman said to him, “Sir, I can see that you are a prophet”……And after Jesus tells this woman what he already knew - That she was living an adulterous life - The Samaritan woman admits her sin - And this confession changes the dynamic of the conversation - It also changes the Samaritan woman!….This is the aspect of this story told to us by St John that we must focus on….We will never be fulfilled in our relationship with God until we “come clean” with him by and through the Sacrament of Reconciliation…Our eyes will remain “closed” - We will never “hear” the Gospel as it truly is meant to be heard - Until we confess our sins……Many will hear this Gospel today at Masses across the entire world…But how many will “hear” the message - That in order to possess “the life giving water” of Christ, we must first repent - As this adulterous woman at the well did…..John the Baptist showed the world the way to God…Notice in the message that John the Baptist proclaimed to the world - “Repent - The Kingdom of God is at hand”……Again - notice the order of his message - First we must repent and then the Kingdom of God will be at hand to us…Then and only then we will “see” and “hear” God as He is.


“Sir, give me this water, so that I may not be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water.”


There are some in the Catholic Church, that believe that the Blessed Sacrament can be received no matter what state a person is in, meaning we can receive it “as we are” and on “our terms”……This is fundamentally incorrect - The Church is very clear  and always has been clear in its teaching authority - In order to receive the Blessed Sacrament, a Catholic must be in full communion with the Church and be in the state of grace - Meaning free from objective moral sin….No Pope, Cardinal, Bishop, Priest of Lay person can change this teaching…….For this very reason, we must instruct our people that they must frequent the Sacrament of Reconciliation before fully participating at Mass… And if a person finds themself in a irregular situation where they can not receive the Blessed Sacrament for whatever reason, that person is of course welcome to attend Mass - Everyone is welcome to attend Mass! - They just can not receive the Blessed Sacrament…And during that time away from the Eucharist, such a person must pray…And if they pray - God will address what is keeping that person away from living a Sacramental life - And in time, God will address what needs to be addressed…..Why is this so important? - Because the Church very clearly teaches that to receive the Blessed Sacrament in the state of mortal sin is a grave offense against God….As a lifelong Catholic - Have you ever heard people say? - “I have been going to Mass every Sunday for forty years and get nothing out of it”….If a person who says that only would go to Confession with a priest…If they did, they never would say such a statement again….The grace of God is always falling upon us like rain - Sadly we sometimes put up an “umbrella” and “the rain” does not touch our face…We must put down the “umbrella” so God’s life giving grace can fall upon us…..The story of the Samaritan woman told to us at Mass illustrates this point…The woman did not receive the “life giving water” Jesus spoke about, until she was open and honest about her sins with Christ….This woman’s example points the way forward…..Repent - The Kingdom of God is at hand!


“And hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.”


Today at Mass a very important message was communicated to us…First of of which is that as Catholics we must be a welcoming people - No matter who God puts in front of us, we must be encouraging and friendly….However at the same time, this Gospel also tells us that in order to build a fruitful relationship with the Lord, we have to be honest with God and our self - We must admit where we have sinned, repent of our sin and ask God through the Sacrament of Reconciliation for not only forgiveness but the grace to overcome our sin….This is the key!….Catholics must return to the practice of frequent Confession - The saints recommend going once every month…….Notice in the Gospel, the Samaritan woman who Jesus spoke with at the well, she perceived immediately that Jesus was “someone special”….The same will go for us as practicing Catholic when we encounter the unbelieving world around us - If we live a Sacramental life, if we pray daily and fast weekly - The secular world will notice the life of God in us…And that will encourage them to inquire about possessing the same grace we have been given….Grace falls upon the world like rain - It is always pouring down upon the earth - Maybe its time to “put down our umbrella”…..This is the “life giving water” that we all “thirst” for - So put down your “umbrella” and feel the rain on your face!…..JMJ

Saturday, March 7, 2026

A kind smile and a welcoming word can work wonders - Leave the rest to God


Today at Holy Mass in the first reading from Micah we are told something important…Something our world desperately needs to believe…”Who is there like you, the God who removes guilt and pardons sin for the remnant of his inheritance; Who does not persist in anger forever, but delights rather in clemency, And will again have compassion on us, treading underfoot our guilt? You will cast into the depths of the sea all our sins”…….Our world today reels from wounds due to sins…We all sin, its sadly apart of the human condition and the reality is, sin wounds us….The secular world has no answer for these wounds - Instead of bringing them to God Sacramentally, the wounds of sin fester and are rationalized away - Then the hurt as a result of sin is projected upon others…..Those who have eyes to “see” - “See” this all around us…There is only one cure and our Catholic faith provides it through the Sacrament of Reconciliation…..Intellectually one can tell themselves, even with the best of intentions - “Jesus forgave me of my sins” - We can tell ourselves this all day and everyday - But if we do not bring our sins to a Catholic priest and have them forgiven Sacramentally - Those sins remain….In our reading today from Micah, we are told something that should bring us great joy - That God delights in clemency - Why would we not take him up on it? - Its there for the taking!…..Time does not heal old wounds…..And sinful habits that are not broken are a form a slavery…..The answer to so many of our problems can be solved - Beginning with these words…”Bless me Father for I have sinned - Its been “x” amount of years since my last confession”…..Freedom is staring us in the face on the other side of one Sacramental Confession.


“I will get up and go to my father and shall say to him, Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you”


Social Media has its benefits….Its a good way to keep in touch with old friends…Recently a friend of mine from college, who I lived with for two years and currently lives many miles way asked me privately about going to confession…..I knew Sean all four years of my college career…I knew his brothers and also his father….They all were good people…..Sean was just like me, we came from good Catholic homes, went to a Catholic University…and sadly “forgot” everything that was taught and shown to us before we entered college…We both lived the life of the prodigal son and because of bad choices we both made - Life taught us hard lessons!…I “figured things out” sooner then Sean and returned to my Catholic roots but Sean, now in his fifties was beginning to “see the light”…..So Sean reached out to me and asked me about going to Confession…I told him I go to Confession every two weeks….And my first real “adult confession” was when I was twenty-two years old - After I returned home from college and my life was a mess!….I told Sean the devil tries to discourage us from going to Confession, even as we open the door to the Confessional, but once we “get it over with” we feel great!….Confessing our sins is a lot easier then we all think…..After I told Sean all this - Time went by - And he never brought the topic up again…Around one month later - Sean sent me a message - It was short and to the point - “I did it - I went to Confession”…..I responded with a “thumbs up”….."The Lord is good and his mercy endures forever"


“Tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to listen to Jesus, but the Pharisees and scribes began to complain, saying, "This man welcomes sinners and eats with them."


The theme of today’s readings from Mass centers in on God’s mercy and forgiveness…The Gospel echoes the message from the Prophet Micah in the first reading…In the Gospel we heard the story of the Prodigal son…We all know this story and sadly most of us “lived” this story - At least I did….I shared in this reflection how my friend Sean came back to God, after squandering the many gifts given to him by his Catholic family - I can say that because I was no different…We are told so many “nice things” about God when we are children…Our parents warn us….Good teachers educate us and warn us too…But all that “good stuff” can so easily “go in one ear and out the other ear”…..Sometimes, like the young man in the story of the Prodigal son, we have to “feel the burn” of “hard times”………”When he had freely spent everything, a severe famine struck that country, and he found himself in dire need. So he hired himself out to one of the local citizens who sent him to his farm to tend the swine. And he longed to eat his fill of the pods on which the swine fed, but nobody gave him any”…….God works in mysterious ways - He also works sometimes through the bad choices we make and through the many “crooked paths” of our life…But through it all - The “seeds” of Baptism are constantly “churning” and the “Hound of Heaven” is always on the “prowl” for lost souls……This is why we as Catholics, who practice our faith must live and work amongst the many who do not….We are told in the Gospel reading today from St Luke that the pharisees took offense that Jesus “welcomes sinners and eats with them”……How else can the “sick” get better? - If we do not reach a hand to “the sick” and show them a path forward by the witness of our life…..The late Pope Francis made a statement that has and always will stick with me….”The Catholic Church is not a museum for saints - But a hospital for sinners”…….We as Catholics are all sinners! - And when we “think” we are somehow “better” then others - Who simply do not sin like we do - If we “think” this way - Something is very wrong!….Now, don’t get me wrong - This does not mean we condone sin nor does it mean we can distribute the Blessed Sacrament to those who live in objective mortal sin - But it does mean we should never “shut people out” of our life….Open the doors wide to Christ - The doors of the Church must always be open! - And we as Catholics must always be at those Church doors with a smile on our face and a hand extended to every and any soul who approaches us!….“Those who are healthy do not need a physician, but the sick do. I have not come to call the righteous to repentance but sinners”…….The minute we “think” we are somehow better then others - We become worse!…..A kind smile and a welcoming word can work wonders - Leave the rest to God…………JMJ

Friday, March 6, 2026

God is not “selling anything”


Today at Holy Mass he hear in the Gospel from St Matthew the story of a landowner who planted a vineyard and leased it to tenants….When reading the Gospel of St Matthew one must keep in mind that Matthew’s primary audience were the Jewish people…In this story, Matthew is telling the Jewish people something very directly - That they are God’s chosen people and they were given the “vineyard” but in the time of God’s absence, they rejected their stewardship of the land, so God punished them…And in a later parable told to us by St Matthew - A great Wedding Feast was given and the guests who were first invited were not not interested in attending, they had “other things to do”, so we hear that God “invited other guests” to the banquet - Those “other guests” were the gentiles……These stories were meant to shock the Jewish audience of St Matthew’s time - But they are also meant to shock us today…..God “offers” us salvation, which is found in the Catholic Church, but in order to “cash in” on that offer, we must cooperate with God….If we choose not to - What was given to us will be taken away…Did you hear that!?!……This message is for real!


“God so loved the world that he gave his only-begotten Son; so that everyone who believes in him might have eternal life”


Throughout the bible, there are many stories and isolate statements that deeply impact me…I want to share with you one of them that I believe relates to the Gospel from Mass today about a people who are offered something great and in turn reject the offer……This passage is taken from the Gospel of John - I reflect on it often - Its message is very clear, its also very Catholic:


“For my flesh is true food, and my blood is true drink. Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me and I in him. Just as the living Father sent me and I have life because of the Father, so also the one who feeds on me will have life because of me. This is the bread that came down from heaven. Unlike your ancestors who ate and still died, whoever eats this bread will live forever.” These things he said while teaching in the synagogue in Capernaum. The Words of Eternal Life. Then many of his disciples who were listening said, “This saying is hard; who can accept it?” Since Jesus knew that his disciples were murmuring about this, he said to them, “Does this shock you? What if you were to see the Son of Man ascending to where he was before? It is the spirit that gives life, while the flesh* is of no avail. The words I have spoken to you are spirit and life. But there are some of you who do not believe.” Jesus knew from the beginning the ones who would not believe and the one who would betray him. And he said, “For this reason I have told you that no one can come to me unless it is granted him by my Father.” As a result of this, many [of] his disciples returned to their former way of life and no longer accompanied him.Jesus then said to the Twelve, “Do you also want to leave?” Simon Peter answered him, “Master, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life. We have come to believe and are convinced that you are the Holy One of God.”


In this passage Jesus is very clear that his “flesh is true food and his blood is true drink” and that a Sacramental faith, which we practice to this very day in the Catholic Church was given to the Jewish people…He also says that food he gave the Jewish people to eat in the desert (i.e. Manna) for their survival does not compare to what is being given now…Something new has happened and because of that a “change needs to be made”….So when Jesus says this, some people leave the group - Notice how Jesus reacts to the twelve disciples when people leave - “Do you also want to leave?”…..Jesus is not “selling anything”…He is basically saying to those who remain…”It is what it is! - You either accept what I say as I say it…or…”There is the door” - “You can leave too”…..A strong message indeed!………The offer of salvation is for everyone and it first was given to the Jewish people - Jesus was a Jew and so were his first disciples…But as we hear in the Gospel today from St Matthew…The Jewish people “reject the offer”…So what does Jesus do? - Does he change the offer in any way? - Not a chance! - He just makes the other to “other people” - And guess who those “other people” became? - The Catholic Church!……God is not “selling anything”…And God does not force us to follow him…God never imposes himself on us - God proposes - He makes us “an offer” and that “offer” is made through his son and the one Church his son created…How do I know this? - Here is the answer - “For my flesh is true food, and my blood is true drink. Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me and I in him”……..The one Church Jesus founded was Eucharistic!…..Seems pretty clear to me - How about you?


“The stone that the builders rejected has become the cornerstone; by the Lord has this been done, and it is wonderful in our eyes?”


The Gospel read to us at Mass today addresses a question that is debated to this very day….Are the Jewish people still the chosen people?…..While God did say in Scripture that the Jewish people were indeed the chosen people, we hear in St Matthew’s Gospel that the Jewish people rejected the offer of salvation by God - So what does God do in response? - He makes “the offer” to other people…Seems pretty clear to me….So how must we respond to our Jewish brothers and sisters today? - We must pray for them - That they may “open their eyes”!…..Jesus was a Jew and Jesus took the Jewish faith in a “different direction”….The temple was destroyed in Jerusalem, literally!…And a “new temple” took its place - And that “temple” is Jesus’ body and blood, offered once for the sins of mankind…..The “offer of salvation” made by God is the same today as it was two thousand years ago during the time Christ walked the earth….And we cannot change “the offer”, though may try too…………God is not “selling anything”…..JMJ

Thursday, March 5, 2026

Talk is cheap


Today at Holy Mass we hear from the Gospel of St Luke the story of a poor man named Lazarus and a rich man…..This story should haunt us! - Speaking personally it haunts me!…The rich man had a good life - Was given everything but Lazarus was not as fortunate…And the rich man took for granted everything that was given to him….Never giving a second thought to how Lazarus suffered…..The world today should think long and hard about this story because one day we all will stand before God and be judged….Its very easy to criticize the rich man in this story but in many ways, we all are like him….While we cannot help everyone, do we have “eyes to see” the poor around us?….Keeping in mind, before we can give assistance to the poor, we must “see” them……..If we were to look at the wealth of this world objectively today, there is no reason why anyone should be poor….What we have forgotten is, that everything we have is a gift from God and in a “New York minute”, everything can be taken away - Even from the most gifted and powerful people - “Think” of how natural disasters effect the rich and poor alike - “Think” of how the COVID Virus resulted in the deaths of millions globally - Nothing could be done to stop it!…..Yet we somehow “think” we are immune from death - That our “gifts and wealth” insulate us……Notice in the story today told to us at Mass - St Luke states the following….”When the poor man died, he was carried away by angels to the bosom of Abraham. The rich man also died and was buried” - Both the rich and the poor die alike and both will stand before God…All the “things” we chase after in this life at that point mean nothing - Yet we “conveniently forget” that reality……Something else jumped out at me as I read this passage from St Luke today…..The rich man asks God to warn people about his fate….God says something rather interesting……”Then I beg you, father, send him to my father's house, for I have five brothers, so that he may warn them, lest they too come to this place of torment.' But Abraham replied, 'They have Moses and the prophets. Let them listen to them.' He said, 'Oh no, father Abraham, but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.' Then Abraham said, 'If they will not listen to Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded if someone should rise from the dead”………Each and every day as Catholics we hear the words of Jesus Christ read to us at Mass - But do we really “hear” the words spoken from the pulpit?…..God instructs us - God warns us repeatedly - God tries his best to form us - But do we “hear him? - More importantly, if we do “hear” him - Do we respond? - Where we spend eternity rest in the balance of these very important questions…..What we say we believe means very little - Its what we do that counts - Its the daily choices we make that count…..”I call heaven and earth today to witness against you: I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse. Choose life, then, that you and your descendants may live, by loving the LORD, your God, obeying his voice, and holding fast to him. For that will mean life for you, a long life for you to live on the land which the LORD swore to your ancestors, to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, to give to them”……Choose life! - Because it is a choice, its not a guarantee!


“Blessed are they who have kept the word with a generous heart and yield a harvest through perseverance”


No one ever became poor by sharing…..As a married man with five children, my wife and I have been given a great responsibility by God…We must raise and educate five human beings and that costs money - There is no way around that reality….With that said, how we put our money to use tells the world around us a lot….God gives us what we need - Not necessarily what we want - Do we give to our children in the same manner?…..Do we as Catholics live simply and humbly? - Because if we do, we may find that not only can we provide for our family, but we can also share with those around us, especially those who are in need…This is a choice to live like this and a married couple must make this choice in the beginning of their marriage…..When one lives a life of giving - Giving not only to our immediate family but to others around us - Such a person is filled with great joy and deep peace…..Each of us were born to live this way - Its in our DNA to share and when we do - The Holy Spirit floods into our soul……As Catholics, if you take the time to read the Compendium of the Social Doctrine of the Catholic Church - How we are to live is documented very clearly for us…After you read this document, ask yourself - ”Is this what you see in America, even among many Catholics?…..When I entered college at eighteen years old, I was not a practicing Catholic sadly…I did however go to a Catholic College and the religious order that ran the university took a vow of poverty…I can remember very vividly one of the first days on campus and I was told that the president’s home on the campus was referred to by the faculty as “the mansion”….I thought to myself - “How can a priest who took a vow of poverty live in a mansion?”…Now I am not “point fingers” here - Just raising an important point - Why you may ask? - Because this is how the secular world looks at us Catholics…..When we have been give many things - Do we share them? - Do we have large families open to life? - Do we share with the poor? - Do we live simply?….Again, why do I say this? - Because the world is watching! - And so is God…At the same university where I attended, there was a sign above the library - The sign read…”Those who have been given much - Much will be expected” - We either believe that or we do not - And the Gospel today from Mass about Lazarus and the rich man illustrates this for us very clearly…..”I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse. Choose life”


“Blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose hope is the LORD. He is like a tree planted beside the waters that stretches out its roots to the stream: It fears not the heat when it comes, its leaves stay green; In the year of drought it shows no distress, but still bears fruit”


The Gospel today from Mass I believe is something we as Catholics should take very seriously…..It all comes down to how we view our lives - If we are building our “castle” here on earth - We will not share and hoard all the “good things” we have acquired - But if we are looking to heaven and know that we are simply pilgrims “passing through” this world - Then we will share of our resources with others and not count the cost…..We all “heard” the message today from St Luke - How we live matters! - If we share matters!….Once we authentically encounter the Lord - Once we truly “see” him in the Blessed Sacrament - Then and only then will we “see” him in others, most especially the poor….And when we “see” Our Lord in others, it only then makes sense that we will respond…It all comes down to “what we see”….Because before we can help others and share of our resources - We first have to “see” those around us - Do we “see”?….”Blessed are the pure of heart, for they shall see God”….If we “see” then our actions will follow….And our actions will “speak” to the world around us…This is how we “convince” the unbelieving world that God is real - That the Catholic Church contains the fullness of Truth…”For I was hungry and you fed me…I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink…I was naked and you clothed me…..Talk is cheap…….JMJ

Wednesday, March 4, 2026

"Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return”


Today at Holy Mass in the Gospel of St Matthew we hear how the mother of James and John asked Jesus to place her sons on thrones…..Jesus addresses her request telling her as followers of God, earthly status means very little…So the question for us to ponder today is - Do we thirst for earthly status? - Even as we serve God?……."You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and the great ones make their authority over them felt. But it shall not be so among you. Rather, whoever wishes to be great among you shall be your servant; whoever wishes to be first among you shall be your slave. Just so, the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many”…….When we contemplate the example of Jesus Christ we will quickly see how he lived a simple and humble life…..As St Paul tells us….”For you know the gracious act of our Lord Jesus Christ, that for your sake he became poor although he was rich, so that by his poverty you might become rich”…For the first thirty years of Jesus life, we know very little about him…The Holy Family lived quietly, no one even looked at them twice!…..While Scripture does not document what their life was all about in Nazareth, I would guess that they lived upstanding lives, yet their example was given no fanfare……This is the life that Catholics around the world should aspire to live - But do we?….Living humbly - Living Simply - “Speaking” by our example……Is this the life you live?……The example of the Holy Family for the first thirty years in the life of Jesus Christ should be our model…..What we do for God and the Church does not have to bring us awards and accolades…And if it does, use the opportunity to point to God…..St Matthew warns us of the trap set for us by the devil himself - Even in our service for the Lord and to the Church - ”All their works are performed to be seen. They widen their phylacteries and lengthen their tassels. They love places of honor at banquets, seats of honor in synagogues, greetings in marketplaces, and the salutation ‘Rabbi.’ As for you, do not be called ‘Rabbi.’ You have but one teacher, and you are all brothers”…….As servants of God, we must be mindful of why we do what we do - We should work for an audience of one - And that audience is God alone…Mother Teresa reminds us - “We are not called to be successful - We are called to be faithful…And if our work for the Lord “bears fruit”, let us know that our success is due to God’s grace…..In order to embrace such a mindset, a Catholic must deeply understand the creature - creator paradigm….We were created by God and without God “we can do nothing” - When we lose sight of this reality, we start to think more of ourself and less of God and in doing, we get “lost” - Even in our service for God and the Church!……..“When you fast, do not look gloomy like the hypocrites. They neglect their appearance, so that they may appear to others to be fasting. Amen, I say to you, they have received their reward. But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, so that you may not appear to others to be fasting, except to your Father who is hidden. And your Father who sees what is hidden will repay you”…The devil is shrewd, he can turn even our religious devotions into prideful displays….Be mindful and Be humble - Know who you truly are - A sinner in need of mercy - And give thanks - For God is merciful


“I am the light of the world, says the Lord; whoever follows me will have the light of life”


It was not until I started to work with Mother Teresa’s sisters in 2007 that I began to understand what it means to live a “hidden life”…What I mean by a “hidden life” is to serve the Lord without fanfare…This was the life of the Holy family, St Joseph and Our Lady are the best examples of witnessing this lifestyle for us….The Missionaries of Charity do so many amazing things…They serve the poorest of the poor tirelessly, in every corner of the world and for the most part, no one even realizes it - And they do not care that the world does not “see” what they do - Because everything they do is done for God alone…This is how we must model our life as Catholics….I can remember the years I was the driver for the Missionaries of Charity in New York City…How many times people on the street wanted to take their picture and how the sisters would always politely decline…In this era of “selfies” and social media, the Missionaries of Charity live counter-culturally - They live this away because they know who they are at their core - Children of God - The sisters do not need to be the center of attention - God must be the center - And their witness “screams” this message without using words…..Because of their witness and influence, I am a better Catholic today…The world needs witnesses - Because people believe what they see!…..Aspire to live the “hidden life” as a Catholic….Work tirelessly and quietly to build the Kingdom of God and your Father in heaven who sees all things will one day reward you with the an eternal crown of life.


“Can you drink the chalice that I am going to drink?”……They said to him, "We can."


Today at Mass St Matthew tells us a story of an over ambitious mother….Before we “point fingers” and criticize the Mother of James and John - Let us look at our own life….Do we work quietly in the vineyard of the Lord? - Do we aspire to live a hidden life in the service for God and His Church?……Looking at social media today, a very different picture is projected, even within the walls of the Church at times……The Holy Family should be our example, St Joseph and Our Lady put Jesus first - They were in the background, working day and night - They lived this way because they understood first who Jesus was and secondly, they understand who they were in relation to Jesus - The question is - Do we?……In the beginning of Lent when the priest places ashes on our forehead, these words are said to us….."Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return”……These words are to reminder us about our own mortality…..Its very easily to lose sight of the fact that one day we will die, most especially if we have been gifted with many things - And if we have been gifted by God - We can start to “think” we are something we are not - And that is the trap set for us by the devil….So be humble and remain that way! - But how? - Is humility just a word Catholics like to “throw around”?……In order to authentically live a humble life,  we must feel the effects of a humble life - That comes down to our daily choices and the sacrifices we make for others that cost us deeply - You do not learn how to be humble by reading a book!….A person who lives in this manner stays grounded and focused knowing that true greatness rests in God alone and at the end of the day, we are simply sinners in need of mercy….Do we recognize that reality? - Regardless of all the “great things” we do?……………"Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return”……..JMJ

Tuesday, March 3, 2026

”If you are willing, and obey” - There is the key to it all - The rest is up to us


Today at Holy Mass in the first reading we hear from the Prophet Isaiah…In this passage Isaiah is addressing the sins of mankind in a very direct manner…..Can we disagree with him?….We are all sinners - This is the driving reason why Jesus came to us - To forgive our sins……”Wash yourselves clean! Put away your misdeeds from before my eyes; cease doing evil; learn to do good. Make justice your aim: redress the wronged, hear the orphan's plea, defend the widow”…Do we take for granted the driving purpose of Jesus Christ’s mission on earth? - Do we assume that if we profess a belief in Christ with our words that we are automatically forgive our sins?……The Church has taught perennially that Catholics must at the minimum participate in at least one Sacramental Confession each year……Are we as the Body of Christ doing this?…And if we are, is going to Confession once a year enough to grow in virtue and become the people we were born to be?…..The Catholic Church in America has in many ways minimized the need for frequent confession…..The saints tell us (Pope John Paul II; Padre Pio & Fulton Sheen) that going to confession once a month is a very efficacious practice to develop….So why are we reluctant to listen to the saints?…..The Prophet Isaiah goes on in today’s reading……”Come now, let us set things right, says the LORD: Though your sins be like scarlet, they may become white as snow; Though they be crimson red, they may become white as wool. If you are willing, and obey, you shall eat the good things of the land; But if you refuse and resist, the sword shall consume you: for the mouth of the LORD has spoken!”…….We are given a chance to ask God for mercy and forgiveness while we still have life here on earth - But time does run out!……Notice the words Isaiah uses in this passage - “ If you are willing, and obey” - This is a conditional statement…Do we again take for granted that we are entitled to eat the “good things of the land” without meeting the established condition, which is to repent Sacramentally?…..The human mind many times deludes itself of the Truth - But the teaching of the Church is clear and so are the words of the prophets and the saints…The rest is up to us.


"Why do you recite my statutes, and profess my covenant with your mouth, Though you hate discipline and cast my words behind you?"


Protestantism has made its way into Catholic thinking in America - Far too many people “think” we just float into heaven based upon the “I’m a good guy” approach….The Church has not, nor never will teach such an idea, but sadly this mindset has made its way into Catholic thinking in America……What the Church has taught perennially is that we need to be sanctified over the course of our life in order to “be ready” to stand before the Lord - This takes time and grace - We must also live and grow in virtue…Frequent Sacramental Confession helps us with this process….For one, frequent confession holds us accountable….A person who makes this a practice knows that if he or she commits a sin, they will soon have to confess it…Secondly, frequent confession, opens a Catholic up to grace, which helps us to overcome even our venial sins…..This is vital and this allows God to “work” in our life, opening “the door” to divine grace….Remember, becoming a holy people is not an automatic - We must give God permission to act in our life…..Both clergy and lay leadership in the Catholic Church needs to promote the practice of frequent confession….Our people need to hear more about this spiritual practice from both the pulpit and the pews alike!…”And I say: Build up, build up, prepare the way, remove every obstacle from my people’s way”……Good habits are developed over time….But leaders must lead by example….Our people need to “see” the benefits of living a vibrant sacramental life in real time….Holiness is attractive and it can’t be self manufactured nor can you become holy by reading a book - It requires God’s grace and in order to receiving that grace we must “make room” for God in our life….We have everything we need to make this happen as a Catholic - Maybe its time to “shout the path forward” from the roof tops? - People do not “know what they do not know”, remember that, they must be told and more importantly shown by a living example. - That is what a leader does - He leads by example.


“Cast away from you all the crimes you have committed, says the LORD, and make for yourselves a new heart and a new spirit”


Today the Prophet Isaiah has some strong words for the people…..You can summarize the entire first reading from Mass into one word - Repent!….When was the last time you heard this word spoken to you?……Jesus Christ himself said that the greatest man ever born of a woman was John the Baptist and John really had one message for the world to hear….”Repent and Believe the Gospel”…….Think about that message for a moment - Notice John did not say “believe the Gospel” first - In fact, if we try to understand what the Gospel is trying to teach us without first repenting of our sins Sacramental, we will never understand its intended meaning…Jesus Christ walked this earth to “take away the sins of the world”…Its for us to allow him to do just that - But before that happens - We must give Jesus permission to free us of our sins….This begins with us saying these words to a Catholic priest…”Bless me Father for I have sinned”…..One Sacramental Confession can erase a lifetime of sin and the practice of frequent Sacramental Confession transform us into a holy people…......”If you are willing, and obey” - There is the key to it all - The rest is up to us………………..JMJ