Friday, September 25, 2026

“In the world you will have trouble, but take courage, I have conquered the world”


Today at Holy Mass in the Gospel of Luke Jesus tells Peter something he does not understand - Not only does he not understand it - He does not accept it…And guess what?…Nor do we!……“The Son of Man must suffer greatly and be rejected by the elders, the chief priests, and the scribes, and be killed”……So what is the problem here? - Bottom line - If Jesus who is God suffered - SO WILL WE - And we adamantly reject this notion - We run from suffering - We avoid suffering - We push suffering away….But this is not what Jesus did - And we must learn to accept whatever suffering comes our way as being part a God’s permissive will for us, in order for us to grow in sanctity and become a holy people….Learning to say “OK God” when things do not go our way is a grace - One I pray and fast for….The saints accepted everything and we too must strive to do the same….Suffering touches every human soul and ONLY the Catholic faith can adequately address it - Why Is that the case? - You can not “think” your way out of suffering - You cannot “argue” your way out of suffering….You can only pray your way out of suffering and by and through God’s grace - You can accept that suffering and endure it until it “passes”…This is how we grow in holiness…..As Catholics we are told by Jesus himself that we must “pick up our cross daily” - We give “lip service” to this “idea” and “think” we understand this request - Until we actually see and feel just how heavy “that cross”   is….Then comes the “excuses” - The complaints - The avoidance - The self rationalizations…..Jesus knows us better then we know ourself and he knows EXACTLY what we need to become holy - And that MUST be the goal - To become holy….And because God loves us - He allows suffering to enter our life through his permissive will - A “particular suffering” perfectly suited for each soul…To mold us - To form us - To sanctify us….I have prayed to Our Lady and have asked her to make me a saint - So my life can bring her son the glory…Not the way “I” want to become a saint - The way her son wants me to become a saint…And my “bet” is - Those two “ideas” are very different…Maybe God’s idea of me becoming a saint is simply to be a good husband and father….To do the simple tasks each day with joy and great amounts of love - To enjoy every moment with my wife and children…Not too “glamorous” - Right?!? - But that does not matter!!! - God knows what we need and he provides what we need so we can become WHO we were born to be….St Luke’s Gospel today began with Jesus asking St Peter a question…..“Who do the crowds say that I am?”……Take a moment today and ask God that question about yourself…..WHO am I Lord and WHO am I supposed to become?…..The answer may be very different from “your version” of who you “think” you are and who you are to become…Either way - One thing I know for certain - YOU are to become a saint - WE are all called to become saints…Be who you were born to be!


“The Son of Man came to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many”


For seven years I served with Mother Teresa’s sisters in an AIDS hospice in New York City every Saturday…I primarily was the Saturday driver but the convent I would visit every Saturday took care of man with AIDS - In fact, this home was the first of its kind in all of America founded by Mother Teresa herself - This is where I was given my “education”…In this home I have seen men transformed - And their suffering played a big part of the transformation…Allow me to share one story….One Saturday in 2008 I got to the convent and the sisters told me that Bishop Manny Cruz, the Auxiliary Bishop of the Archdiocese of Newark (my diocese) personally carried in a man (he literally carried him in with his own hands), who was dying in a city hospital in New Jersey of AIDS….This man was from El Salvador and his name was Manuel - Manuel spoke no English, he was blind and had AIDS - No joke!….When I saw Manuel in a bed in the hospice I thought to myself - He will be dead soon - Manual was emancipated and looked like his time was short for this life……For two straight weeks he did not get out of bed…But slowly, due to the good care the sisters provided…..Manual slowly got better…It took one entire year from him to come down the stairs by himself to the chapel to pray a Holy Hour with us and go to daily Mass….Think about that for a moment - ONE WHOLE YEAR he was basically bedridden!!!….Manual not only got better with time - But began to thrive….He would pray everyday and became a daily communicant…He lived in the Hospice for seven years! - And frankly, he was a very pleasant man, considering he was blind and had AIDS…Well one day, the sisters told me Manual was moving out…They found him an assisted living facility in New York City suited for the blind….When I heard this I called Bishop Manny’s office in Newark…I told his secretary that Bishop Manny carried a man, half dead, to a AIDS Hospice in Manhattan seven years ago run by Mother Teresa’s sisters…..That he is now leaving and going to live on his own - I asked Bishop Manny’s secretary if he would come to the convent and preside over a Mass of thanksgiving….His secretary said she would “pass on the message”…Guess what? - Bishop Manny showed up!….And when Manual, the man he saved heard his voice, he weep like a child…..Think about the ordeal Manuel went through to get him to “this state” - A prayerful man - A daily communicant…He was on death’s door!!!! - He was bedridden for one entire year - He was blind - He had AIDS…And now - After all that - He was restored back to being able to live independently and was actively practicing his Catholic faith…..What does that tell you?…I can only conclude - God has a plan…And his ways are NOT our ways…..Everything happens for a reason - All suffering is meant to sanctify us…And there is one goal - The only goal that matters!!!! - That we arrive safely in heaven……


“The Son of Man must suffer greatly and be rejected by the elders, the chief priests, and the scribes, and be killed”


Learn to say - “OK God”….Pray and fast for this grace….God “knows what he is doing”….”I have told you this so that you might have peace in me. In the world you will have trouble, but take courage, I have conquered the world”…..JMJ

Thursday, September 24, 2026

There is nothing new under the sun


Today at Holy Mass we hear in the first reading one of those Bible passages that we all know…But do we “think about it”?….Clearly we hear the words….But do we somehow “think” they do not apply to us? - We are “that special”?…In the reading from Ecclesiastes, we are presented with a litany of examples that should open our eyes to the fact that “we are not all that” as we commonly say in New Jersey where I am from - meaning - Life comes and goes - And it goes by fast!….That the only thing that lasts is God and the Eternal Truth, which can not be changed…But “Boy-Oh-Boy” does mankind try to ignore this reality and dare I say even alter it….Over the decades I have taught the Catholic faith and one of the examples I have used to compare the Truth contained in the Catholic Church to is the laws of gravity…..A person can deny that gravity exists all day long…We are free - Right?….But then that same person “jumps of their roof” and “hits the cement sidewalk”…..Even then they can deny gravity exists- But their body in the mean time is mangled from the fall…..The Eternal Laws of God, which are written on the human heart apply to us whether we acknowledge them or not….The same goes for God Himself - You can rationalize God away all you want - That does not change reality - And God is reality……This is one of the fatal flaws of mankind - Arguably, the biggest mistake ever made!….And the same mistake is repeated generation after generation - Look around - Look right out your front door - Its happening in real time!….I have seen the impact of this “denial” of reality in close friends and family - As I am sure YOU have…As time goes on - As it always does - Their lives unravel…..Most times people have to come to “end of themselves” to accept the fact that God is real and that “the rules” of life apply to them - Like them or not……When we finally come "to end of ourself" - Its there that God waits for us and life begins….Its in that space that God says - “Now we can begin”


Vanity of vanities, says Qoheleth, vanity of vanities!  All things are vanity! What profit has man from all the labor which he toils at under the sun? One generation passes and another comes, but the world forever stays. The sun rises and the sun goes down; then it presses on to the place where it rises. Blowing now toward the south, then toward the north, the wind turns again and again, resuming its rounds. All rivers go to the sea, yet never does the sea become full. To the place where they go, the rivers keep on going. All speech is labored; there is nothing one can say. The eye is not satisfied with seeing nor is the ear satisfied with hearing. What has been, that will be; what has been done, that will be done. Nothing is new under the sun. Even the thing of which we say, “See, this is new!” has already existed in the ages that preceded us. There is no remembrance of the men of old; nor of those to come will there be any remembrance among those who come after them.


Years ago I attended a Holy Hour at a Church in mid-town Manhattan on a Sunday evening…The Parish of Saint Vincent Ferrer is located in one of the wealthiest parts of Manhattan….Before the Holy Hour, I decided to grab a coffee around the corner…When I walked into the coffee shop, a bunch of old man, they looked like they lived in the neighborhood were there drinking coffee together…I thought to myself - Who are these men? - They must be WEALTHY to live around here!!!!…But if you looked at them, they simply looked like old men who lived anywhere in America - These men just happened to be uber-rich….The thought came to my mind when I saw them, which we are reminded today in the first reading from Mass……”Vanity of vanities, says Qoheleth, vanity of vanities!  All things are vanity! What profit has man from all the labor which he toils at under the sun? One generation passes and another comes, but the world forever stays”…Clearly these men were accomplished people - They ran companies - They sat in executive board rooms - They traveled the world!……One can assume that because they live where they do - But at this point in their life - NO ONE CARES!….They are simply old men drinking coffee at a local coffee shop….This example is worth noting and we are reminded today in the first reading from Mass of the reality of our own mortality…Do we prioritize the eternal?…or…Do we chase after “straw” that burns away quickly and is forgotten?….Have you ever met an eighty year old man who showed you a picture of his house?….Usually eighty year old men, if they are fortunate enough to still be alive and healthy show you pictures of their grandchildren…Do we keep this reality in mind? - As we chase after “straw”?……God is REAL and living your life through the lens of Catholic teaching is not only the best way to live - Its the only way to live….How can I say that? - “Amen, amen, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you do not have life within you”…….The eternal and unchangeable teachings of the Catholic Church are time tested and proven to “bear fruit” that will last…We can ignore that reality all we want - Self rationalize it away all day…Delude ourselves and distract ourself with all forms of nonsense until the sun goes down!….But reality is reality……”Nothing is new under the sun”……We are told by Jesus that if we build our life on a solid foundation - It will stand firm - The winds of time will blow and storms will come and go - But our life will stand strong….There is no stronger foundation to build a life upon then the teachings of the Catholic Church….That is reality!….Because God is reality…There is nothing new under the sun…..JMJ


“You turn man back to dust, saying, “Return, O children of men.”For a thousand years in your sight are as yesterday, now that it is past, or as a watch of the night”

Wednesday, September 23, 2026

GOD PROVIDES


Today at Holy Mass both readings refer to what is commonly known as Divine Providence…That God will provide what you need in life…Do we believe this?….Its important to note that there is a big difference between what we need and what we want….When one reads the Social Compendium of the Catholic Church, that idea is illustrated very clearly…In the first reading today at Mass - We are told something that goes against our American sensibilities…”Give me neither poverty nor riches; provide me only with the food I need; Lest, being full, I deny you, saying, "Who is the LORD?" Or, being in want, I steal, and profane the name of my God”…Is this how we view our life and the life of our family?….To live simply?……As Catholics we are called to be detached from money….Clearly as a man who has five children, I need money…But money should never be the goal - Its a means to provide for the needs of my family….How does one put money in its proper place?…For one, as a married Catholic - Do you use contraception?….If your marriage is open to life, the couple will learn how to trust in Divine Providence - And God will show you just how he provides!….Second - Do you share your wealth with the poor?….Not everyone can do this because let’s be honest - Some people have just enough to survive themselves - But how do you structure your finances? - Are you so leveraged because of debt because you are trying to have things you really cannot afford, which in turn does not permit you to share or have numerous children?…..If you structure your income to simply provide for the needs of your family, most times, one will find there is money left over - Money that can be shared - Is this what you do?….When we live in this manner, we detach from money and our trust in God’s providence grows and grows - We find that God ALWAYS provides!…….I have been married for thirteen years - I have five children - We have never used contraception in our marriage and we tithe our income and give to the poor - By the grace of God we are able to do that (Again - I understand not everyone can do this)….Because of this - I NEVER worry about money - That is the truth!!!…Why? - Because God has plenty of money and he has ALWAYS provided for me and my family - God has given me the grace to never worry about money - The way I look at it - “I take care of God in how I lead my family - And He takes care of me!”……I was educated by the Christian Brothers and St John Baptist De Lasalle the founder of the Christian Brothers tells us….“The more you abandon to God the care of all temporal things, the more He will take care to provide for all your wants; but if, on the contrary, you try to supply all your own needs, Providence will allow you to continue to do just that, and then it may very well happen that even necessities will be lacking, God thus reproving you for your lack of faith and reliance on Him”….Throughout the thirteen years of my married life - I have found this statement to be 100% accurate - GOD PROVIDES


“He said to them, "Take nothing for the journey, neither walking stick, nor sack, nor food, nor money, and let no one take a second tunic”


In order to live your life according to Divine Providence, one must “step out” in faith…To live in this manner makes us feel like we “have no control” - Its in that “place” that the Lord meets us!…..When I was the driver for the Missionaries of Charity one of my tasks was to go on Saturday to Trader Joe’s, which is a food store in New York City on 14th Street in Union Square….The store would give us food they could not sell and we would share the food with the poor of the city…Some days I would go there and the manager of the store would be very kind to me - And sometimes they would not….This particular day I asked the manager if he had any food to spare…He at first told me no - Then he hesitated and told me to wait for a moment at the door, he wanted to check something…He came back with three big bags of meat - All kinds of meat - Steak, Chicken, Turkey, Ham….I could not believe it! - I never was given so much good food to bring back to the Missionaries of Charity Convent…When I returned to convent with all the meat…The Superior, Sister Tonia, told me…She recently gave all the meat away and they were in need of food - And now they have MORE then what they need - A true story…I always remember this incident, to this very day, especially when I have doubts in living by Divine Providence…When we “do things God’s way” and trust him - He always provides…As a married man, that means being open to life and sharing my income with the poor….In doing so - God who is my loving Father will ALWAYS take care of me and my family….Why? - Because….GOD PROVIDES!…..JMJ


“Every word of God is tested; he is a shield to those who take refuge in him”

Tuesday, September 22, 2026

We can not give what we do not have


Today at Holy Mass we hear in the Gospel of St Luke Jesus addressing the crowd…He is also addressing us - Do we “hear” him?…..“My mother and my brothers are those who hear the word of God and act on it”……Day after day the Gospel is read at Masses all over the world and contained in these readings are very clear instructions….Do we really “hear” them?…..The Gospel is not a collection of “nice words” - Its God TELLING us how to live - Its God TELLING us how to be happy and thrive - Its God TELLING us the ONLY way to enter into heaven - Is HIS WAY - NOT OUR WAY….And today - Jesus gives a “key” - Did we hear it?…..Allow me to summaries the message - Its not what you hear that is important - Its what you DO with what you hear and how you ACT upon what you hear that matters….Did you catch that?…Each day in the Gospel passages read at Mass, Jesus instructs us - And let’s be honest, his instructions are very challenging….Love your enemies - Forgive infinitely all wrongs done to you - Share your wealth with the poor - Turn the other cheek - Blessed are the meek…Did you hear all that?!?…More importantly - Did you ACT upon it?…..Now allow me to let you in on a “little secret”…..To ACT on all these very challenging commands of Jesus, without living Sacramentally - Without fasting regularly - Without praying daily…IS STRAIGHT UP IMPOSSIBLE!…Did you hear that?!!…And did you hear this today in the Gospel from Mass?…If we do not ACT on these instructions - We will be held accountable - Now don’t shoot the messenger here - I am just telling you the Truth - Again, not my words, these are the words of God…So what does this imply?….Before we attempt to do the impossible - We need to develop our interior life…This should be the primary objective of every Catholic - This should be our number one priority - Why? - Because everything we do comes from our interior life…And if we “think” for one minute - I do not care if you are a Cardinal - A Bishop - A Priest - Married or Single…I do not care if you have 100 university degrees from the best schools!……If you “think” for one minute that you are going to be able to “act” on what Jesus says without a deep interior life….I got a “Bridge in Brooklyn to sell you!!!”…..Our problem is not that we do not “hear” what Jesus says - We hear it - What we are missing is the daily discipline to develop our interior life…..The great Abraham Lincoln, the sixteen President of the United States put it best…..”If I had eight hours to chop down a tree, I'd spend six hours sharpening my ax”……God is not impressed with what we ‘know”…Nor is he impressed with what we “hear” or read…God however does take notice how we act - What we do and what we do not do….And what we do depends entirely upon our interior life…”Blessed are those who hear the word of God and observe it”


“To do what is right and just is more acceptable to the LORD than sacrifice”


Do you believe in grace?…Grace is REAL and it is only by and through grace that we can live a Catholic life…Being Catholic is not some “academic pursuit”….Write this down and put it in your pocket! - We can know EVERYTHING about the faith by reading books and FAIL miserably when it comes to living the faith out…And God does not care what we know, as much as what we do with what we know - How we put our faith into action is what matters - St James put it perfectly - “Faith without works is dead”…..In order for us to be “filled up” with grace - We first have to be empty of ourself…We do this by “giving ourself away”…Because even God Almighty can not fill a cup with milk, if the cup is filled to the brim with water, the water MUST be poured out first to make room for the milk…..And when it comes to “doing” what Jesus asks of us….We can not give what we do not have - And what propels us to act and “give” is grace……….My wife and I have five children under twelve years old…And as you can imagine our home is very busy….Both my wife and I live Sacramentally - Not just because the Church tells us too - But because if we do not - THERE IS NO WAY  - We can do what is required of us as husband and wife and as Catholic parents….On the weekends, before the children get up, both me and my wife take turns to sit before the Blessed Sacrament……We sit for thirty minutes each visit, both on Saturday and Sunday….This time spent before Jesus is so important…Mother Teresa tells us why its so important….”When the Sisters are exhausted, up to their eyes in work; when all seems to go awry, they spend an hour in prayer before the Blessed Sacrament. This practice has never failed to bear fruit: they experience peace and strength”……Jesus told us in the Gospel of St John - “Without me you can do nothing” - Our problem is - We do not “hear” what he just said - YOU CAN DO NOTHING! - Did you hear that!!!…..I was told that Mother Teresa one day was asked to give a talk to a group of priests about spending an hour each day before the Blessed Sacrament….After she gave the talk, a priest stood up and said this to Mother….”I have two parishes, a school and a office to manage - I have no time to spend before the Blessed Sacrament each day”…This is what Mother Teresa told this priest…”You are an important man with many things to do and have many responsibilities - You should spend not ONE but TWO hours each day before the Blessed Sacrament”….Do you get the point I am trying to make here?!?…..We can not give what we do not have…….JMJ

Monday, September 21, 2026

“Bear with one another”


Today at Holy Mass we hear in the first reading St Paul talk about Spiritual maturity - What does that mean?…..”And he gave some as Apostles, others as prophets, others as evangelists, others as pastors and teachers, to equip the holy ones for the work of ministry, for building up the Body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of faith and knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the extent of the full stature of Christ”…To be fully spiritually mature means we are in union with Christ - In Catholic theological circles, this is called the unitive way….Few people understand this concept but that does not negate the fact of this idea being a reality….Before we can enter heaven and stand before the beatific vision, we must be made “perfect”….This is the path of sanctification all Catholic SHOULD be cognizant of as we live out our earthly lives and practice our faith….God uses all “things” to make this happen for us - The events of our life (both good and bad); our daily prayer life; the Sacraments; the sacrifices we are required to make in the state of life we were called to (Priest - Married - Single) - All of these things work towards us becoming holy and eventually being able to stand before the beatific vision…..Are you cognizant of this path? - Do we cooperate with God to “get us” where we HAVE to be?…..Because as a good priest told me years ago…”When we die - We do not just float into heaven”……What St Paul is telling the Ephesians today as well as us, is that we must fully cooperate with God for us to “arrive” at the state, in which we will be made “ready” to enter into our eternal home….St Paul also reminds us that not everyone travels this road of sanctification at the same speed….So if you are further ahead of someone else - We must be patient with them - In fact - Its required!…Is this how we view others who may not be “up to speed” yet with God?……”Brothers and sisters: I, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to live in a manner worthy of the call you have received, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another through love, striving to preserve the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace: one Body and one Spirit, as you were also called to the one hope of your call; one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all”……Think about how patient Jesus was with his first tweleve disciples - Keep in mind - Jesus knew who he was and he was perfect…Yet he loved his friends as they were and knew in time - “They would get it”…..Is this what we see today on Catholic Social Media?…or…In parish life across America?……God is and has been patient with YOU - Maybe it’s time to be patient with others?…..And maybe - Just maybe - That is part of our “purification process”? - Making us holy….Remember again - We do not get to stand before “The Man” until we are made perfect!


“As Jesus passed by, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the customs post. He said to him, "Follow me." And he got up and followed him. While he was at table in his house, many tax collectors and sinners came and sat with Jesus and his disciples”


Have you ever meant a holy person? - I mean an authentically holy person?….If you have - There is no doubt in my mind - You remember them!….This is why saints and only saints change the world - Their life becomes so “Christ like” that they attract others to them and as a result, many people experience radical transformations because they see for themselves what the Gospel looks like - In real time - Not from a book……………..Years ago when I was the Saturday driver for the Missionaries of Charity, one of the Saturday volunteers in Lower Manhattan was this Advertising Executive who lived in Brooklyn….Liz Donahue was a very attractive woman in her forties….I got the impression that she made a very good living and maybe at one time in her life she “bought in” to the “culture of death” that surrounds us all in America….But every Saturday, Liz would come to the AIDS Hospice and cook for the men….During that time Liz got very friendly with the Superior of the convent - Sister Vinneth….The two of them became authentic friends…I would some times watch them together laughing as they talked in some corner of the kitchen…Seeing Liz Donahue, the beautiful New York City Advertising Executive and Sister Vinneth together was a sight to behold - “On paper” - It made no sense - But in many ways - It made all the sense in the world…Liz recognized authentic holiness in Sister Vinneth, something that was “lacking” in her….During the seven years that was the driver for the Missionaries of Charity in New York City - I have seen this scenario I just wrote about “play out” time and time again with so many different personalities and people of all walks of life….Notice, Sister Vinneth did not “push” Liz away because she was “not up to speed” as a Catholic, as Sister was…Sister Vinneth was patient with Liz…As St Paul tells us today at Mass….”Live in a manner worthy of the call you have received, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another through love, striving to preserve the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace: one Body and one Spirit, as you were also called to the one hope of your call; one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all”……Is this what we see on Catholic Social Media?….Because if we are not patient with one another - Trust me - God will not be patient with us!…..JMJ


“Bear with one another; forgive each other if one of you has a complaint against another. The Lord has forgiven you; now you must do the same”

Sunday, September 20, 2026

”OK GOD”


Today at Holy Mass we are told in the first reading by the Prophet Isaiah something that most Catholics have heard before….”As high as the heavens are above the earth, so high are my ways above your ways and my thoughts above your thoughts”…And while we all heard this statement before - I do not think we understand it - Not in the least bit! - Why? - Because no matter how many times we “HEAR” this read to us at Mass…We still “want what we want” and do not allow ourselves to “SEE” the world through the “lens” that God sees it……We “define” what is just according to “what works” for ME…..Clearly this is not the “calculus” of God…..As we see today in the Gospel…..”Summon the laborers and give them their pay, beginning with the last and ending with the first. When those who had started about five o'clock came, each received the usual daily wage.  So when the first came, they thought that they would receive more, but each of them also got the usual wage.  And on receiving it they grumbled against the landowner, saying, 'These last ones worked only one hour, and you have made them equal to us, who bore the day's burden and the heat.' He said to one of them in reply, 'My friend, I am not cheating you.  Did you not agree with me for the usual daily wage? Take what is yours and go.  What if I wish to give this last one the same as you?  Or am I not free to do as I wish with my own money?” - Is this how YOU would have reacted to God if YOU worked all day and “some guy” who did a fraction of what you did got the same pay?….Hmmmmmm!….So the question then becomes…How do we “see” and “hear” as God does?…The answer to that question comes from our interior life….The closer we get to God, the more we “see” and the more we accept…Now there is a word - ACCEPT!!!! - What do I mean by “accept”?…When outcomes do not “go our way” - We simply say.....”OK GOD”….This mindset needs to be apart of our total surrender to God - Trusting him in all things…Fully “digesting” this idea that I just presented cannot be self-manufactured - It will only happen by developing a deep interior life - “Living and breathing” through Sacramental grace, daily prayer and fasting…….“You got this God - YOU know what you are doing”….Once again - Catholics all over the world will hear the first reading today read to them at Mass - ”As high as the heavens are above the earth, so high are my ways above your ways and my thoughts above your thoughts”…And when they get home from Mass and turn on the news - And hear something that “does not fit” into their agenda - They will “RANT” and “RAVE” - I know this to be true - Because I too am one of those people!!!…But I am trying - And I invite you to try too….To say these two simple words…And mean them from the bottom of your heart….”OK GOD”
 


“Open our hearts, O Lord, to listen to the words of your Son”


Everything that happens - EVERYTHING - Both Good and Bad - God allows to happen through his permissive will…One may say - “Why does God allow bad things to happen?….For one - Because God does not interfere with our free will and when humans do bad things, God uses those events for a greater good….But one may then say - So many people suffer!….This is true…..However, God “plays the long game”….His goal is we are fully converted (and that is a long and sometimes painful process) and we arrive in heaven safely…And as many know who are reading this reflection…That “process” is messy! - And only God knows what we “need” and what we must experience to make that happen…….In America since abortion has been legalized, it is estimated that 64 million children have lost their lives….No matter who gets elected - Even with the repeal of the famous court case that started it all - Roe v. Wade - The abortion industry rages on!…..Now stop for a moment - Before you “blow your mind” - Do you actually think God does not see what is going on?….That God will not “step in” and stop this atrocity?…..Clearly, I do not have the mind of God - But there is NO WAY God will permit this holocaust to continue indefinitely - Even if it means dismantling the entire country “brick by brick”….And MAYBE that is what we are seeing before our very eyes today - As we all “WANT what we WANT” politically - God is tearing down what needs to be torn down!…In order to build up something new…….”As high as the heavens are above the earth, so high are my ways above your ways and my thoughts above your thoughts”….Or………How about the big debate in the Catholic Church today in America…The Latin Mass crowd vs the Novus Ordo crowd battle! - Its all over social media…..Many Catholics in America (many are my friends) want the Pope to bring back the Latin Mass in local Parrish across the nation…And frankly it does not look like that is going to happen……The Latin Mass was permitted for a time under the pontificate of Pope Benedict XVI - ("Maybe Just Maybe") - This experience in Parish life will serve as a bench mark to “elevate” the current Novus Ordo Mass, bringing it closer in line to how the Mass was intended as the Vatican II documents state very clearly…..We are one Church and there must only be one Mass!….So maybe God is “stepping in” - In a way we do not understand…..Patience obtains all things….God knows what he is doing - Maybe its time to say once again……”OK GOD”…..JMJ


"The kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out at dawn to hire laborers for his vineyard.  After agreeing with them for the usual daily wage, he sent them into his vineyard. Going out about nine o'clock, the landowner saw others standing idle in the marketplace, and he said to them, 'You too go into my vineyard, and I will give you what is just.'

Saturday, September 19, 2026

Do you “know” about Jesus…or….Do you KNOW Jesus?


Today at Holy Mass in the first reading, St Paul in his letter to Corinthians speaks about the need to die to our selves…This is a fundamental concept that every Catholic must FULLY embrace….At the core of Jesus’ message - He shows us that we must “die” in order to rise….Most people will not die like Jesus did…Martyrdom is very rare and frankly is a grace…One does not “will” them self to be a martyr, God gives a select few that grace to carry forth such a radical sacrifice…For the rest of us…We are called to what is referred to by the Church as “White Martyrdom”…….White Martyrdom is when we die to ourself completely by giving our life away in service to others…Most do this in the married state…Where a man and a woman, give themselves to each other completely, are open to life and pour their lives into their children…In doing that, such a couple will find God……This is how the “seeds” of grace take root in us…By emptying our life, we prepare ourselves to receive the Holy Spirit - Because if we are “full of our self”, God cannot “work” with us…..A Priest does this too - By living simply, serving his people tirelessly, sharing his material goods and living a celibate life…..A single person does this too…By using his spare time serving the community, praying daily, and sharing his income with the poor…This is how Catholics die to themself in each state of life…All three of these states of life, if lived in this manner, point to God…..”Someone may say, “How are the dead raised?  With what kind of body will they come back?”You fool! What you sow is not brought to life unless it dies. And what you sow is not the body that is to be but a bare kernel of wheat, perhaps, or of some other kind. So also is the resurrection of the dead. It is sown corruptible; it is raised incorruptible. It is sown dishonorable; it is raised glorious. It is sown weak; it is raised powerful. It is sown a natural body; it is raised a spiritual body. If there is a natural body, there is also a spiritual one”…..So basically there are only two kinds of people in heaven….”Red Martyrs” and “White Martyrs”…..If you do not “fall” into one of these two buckets, my guess is (And it is my guess - I clearly am not God) - You will not be in heaven…….”Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. What profit would there be for one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life? Or what can one give in exchange for his life? For the Son of Man will come with his angels in his Father’s glory, and then he will repay everyone according to his conduct. Amen, I say to you, there are some standing here who will not taste death until they see the Son of Man coming in his kingdom”…We can read every book ever written about the Catholic faith….We can “go through the motions” and “tick every Catholic box” perfectly! - But if we do not give our life away…We will never know who Jesus Christ is…..Red or White - Pick your “poison”?


“Blessed are they who have kept the word with a generous heart and yield a harvest through perseverance”


I know a very gifted Franciscan Priest whose name is Father Bernard…..Before Father Bernard was ordained, his name in the world was John….John was the oldest of seven boys…His father was a lawyer and John grew up in Connecticut - The eldest son of a privilege Catholic family…John was an exceptional student and went on to Brown University - As most people reading this reflection know - Brown is an Ivy League University and one of the most prestigious colleges in America…After college John took a year off to serve the poor in Appalachia - Again, for those who are reading this reflection and may not know - The Appalachian region of America is arguably the poorest region in all of the United States….John was fresh out of college - He had a brilliant mind - He stood over six feet tall and his body was very strong…John had it ALL! - And he knew it……So one day he was asked to help re-build a porch on an old home for a very poor old man…..And John went to work…And as he was working, he realized he did not know how to build the porch - He “thought” it would be easy - But it turned out to be not so easy…So John was visibly struggling and upset…..As he was struggling, the poor old man from Appalachia watched him and had the biggest smile on his face - While John toiled in frustration!…..Finally after hours of trying to fix the porch and not succeeding, John sees the old man, still with a big smile on his face and John screams at him…..”Why are you smiling!!!!!”….”Can’t you see me trying to HELP build this porch”…..The old man just kept smiling - Finally the man from Appalachia addressed John…..”The reason why I am smiling is I KNOW Jesus”…..John heard this and he only got more enraged…He responded - “I know Jesus too - That is why I here trying to build your porch!!!!!!”……The old poor man, still smiling heard what John said and responded back……”You “know” about Jesus - But you DO NOT KNOW him”…”If you did - You would be smiling too”…..This statement left John speechless - He was stopped dead in his tracks….John told me later that night, after thinking about what that poor man said to him, that it caused him to weep bitterly!……“Amen, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever receives one child such as this in my name receives me”…..Before we can “understand” who Jesus is - Before we can live our Catholic faith as we are called too…We MUST give ourself away!!!!…This is how we “tend the soil” of our soul - So “the good seed” can bear fruit…….We are told in the Gospel today that God “sows seeds” - Some on rocks, some in thorn bushes and some on good soil…..Our job as Catholics really is a simple one….Give your life way in service of others in the way God called you to do it - Priest - Married - Single…Then Pray Daily - Fast Weekly - Live Sacramentally…If you do this - “You will bear fruit that will last” - And save your soul…Whether you live in the Hills of Appalachia or graduate from an Ivy League school - Does not matter!……”But as for the seed that fell on rich soil, they are the ones who, when they have heard the word, embrace it with a generous and good heart, and bear fruit through perseverance”…….Do you “know” about Jesus…or….Do you KNOW Jesus?…….JMJ